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I am the fastest bimbo redhead you have ever met! Trust me, I am worth taking a chance!
I have been on CollarSpace before, and have made some wonderful friends in the process! I am a hedonist, a sissy, a bimbo, a slut, and an experienced lifestyle player. I am a genderfluid individual, and a hedonist in every sense of the word! In many senses, this is not my first time around the block!
So I've had some time to really think about what I'm seeking here. First of all, I'm really exhausted by the classic person that's looking just to connect with me so that we can secretly go to a hotel, then I will suddenly give them all the oral sex they want, unprotected of course, and somehow that's what I'm supposed to be loving from this. Sure, there is a place for a date in a hotel, but not on our first date.
What you get with me Is somebody that is fully comfortable in their sexuality, as well as their gender identity. I want to go out with you, and paint the town red. Let me pause right here and say that I'm not looking to dig into your wallet. I hate stuff like that! Don't get me wrong, I love the idea of being treated like a lady, and having somebody take me out on a date, and get the door, and drive me, and nobody in their right mind doesn't like to be treated to a nice evening, but I can pay for my own stuff, and I'm not allergic to splitting things. So just know that right off the bat that I'm seeking something really real.
That being said, I'm in an open poly relationship. I have a primary partner that I live with, and she is not part of the deal when it comes to anything we do together short of she will know that you exist, and if we really get along well, hopefully you will meet her one day. That being said, our rule is that basically we don't do any play with our other partners in our own house, and we don't rub it in each other's faces, and we always use protection. I know that saying that I'm not going to have ANY type of unprotected sex, and yes I mean both oral and anal and vaginal, that I have just eradicated half of you. No problem, if that's what you see, I don't judge, but it's not what I seek. STDs are a thing, and I don't want one!
That being said, I'm open to all sorts of levels of relationship. I don't mind casual, and although my partner will know about you, I don't specifically require your partner knowing about me if that's going to screw things up. But I won't be a homewrecker either, so think about that.
When it comes to the kink aspects of me, when people ask me what I am into, I find it easier just to go, "Yes!" I seriously like practically everything, and if I haven't tried it, I probably will try it, and I'll try it more than once to make sure that I really like it! Just don't ask me to do anything that is going to cause me permanent damage, and don't ask me to do anything illegal. Fair?
Like I touched on earlier, I love to be treated like a lady. I also like to be treated like a slut. I am so all about PDA in public if you are! I love physical contact! I love to kiss, and I love to caress, and I love to tease! Seriously don't be shy to ask me about what you want to do, because there's a good chance that I do who want to do it as well! In fact, the wild and weirder, the better!
One thing I should tell you is that although I do like to have a drink or two, I also want to remember my evening. So please understand that where is I'll have some drinks to loosen up, and I'll probably get extra flirty when I do, I'm not going to get black out drunk.
Age is not an issue for me. So I don't rule out anybody that is legal. I have all sorts of preferences, but what I really tend to lean towards are people that are older than me; preferably significantly so! I don't know why that drives me wild, but it does!
I love to be arm candy! I also love to be a doll in that I want to dress the way that you want me to dress, and make myself up the way you want me made up, and etc. That being said, I have plenty of outfits of my own, but if you want me to wear stuff that I don't have, then we've got to talk about you contributing some of these things. As I mentioned before, I don't mind splitting the cost, but some people have just basically given me this million dollar shopping list, and I don't think that's a reasonable ask!
I am huge huge huge into humiliation and degradation. I've done some seriously extreme scenes in these regards, so if you want to start there, we're going to get along great! I also have an insane love for hoods! I've recently changed my body size the past few years, so as much as I love corsets, I don't have a lot that fit, but I do love to get cinched practically to death. I love extremely restrictive bondage.
I should touch on this: if we talk about maid service, which is definitely something that sissies do, I have some serious lung issues, and can't really handle a lot of cleaning chemicals and that sort of thing. But I'd be happy to serve you tea, and vacuum for you, and dust, and things like that. In fact, if you want somebody to just do general tidying up around your house in a slutty outfit, I'm definitely all about that! I'd love to actually give service like that to somebody regularly almost as if it were a vanilla thing, except with the slutty angle.
My primary partner is asexual. And she actually embraces the fact that I am a sissy, so extreme sissification and feminization and chastity are on the table. When it comes to chastity devices, she has to have a key in case of medical emergencies. Will probably freeze it in a block of ice or something like that so that I can't just randomly grab it, but I digress!
I'm a full-time ride-share operator. I do have a very flexible schedule, but that being said, I have a parent that requires a lot of TLC because they're elderly, so I do need to weigh that factor in also.
I'm very into verbal degradation, but this doesn't mean that you can just send me a message talking down to me. In this form, we talk like adults, and humans, and learn how to turn the movie off, if you see what I mean?
There's so much more to me than all of this, and I really want to know you! Please write to me right away, but if you do, please send a face picture. I'm not going to spread it around the internet, but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to ask that, and also don't ask me for nudes right away. If we hit it off, naked will happen.
Finally, if you got this far, please put the word Phoenix in your intro email.
I have put that I'm willing to relocate. My preference is people that live in the DMV, and/or are visiting here regularly. If I'm going to travel, we need to talk about that because I don't have a lot of funds to do it. Willingness does not mean a permanent move right now, but I never say never!
So why haven't you written to me already? |
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I want our first meeting to be in a public place, and there should be no expectations of play or sexual contact. This comes up a lot, so I'm going to expand on my reasoning since I get asked a lot.
First and foremost, there is a safety aspect of this. I have found out the hard way that talk is cheap. Just because somebody presents themselves well in a written format does not actually mean that it is going to translate into the real world. I've almost been killed before. I will never put myself in that position deliberately again.
But there's another aspect to all of this that I think needs to be addressed. I'm a human. You are a human. We are about to have a potential relationship. Granted, kink is going to be the big theme, but I believe that the best kink happens between friends. And I don't do everything with friends behind closed doors. I want to be able to say something like, "Hey, why don't we go to a museum?" Or it could be any number of things. Maybe we want to get that figurative coffee or hit a happy hour or see a movie or go to a con. You know, friend stuff!
If you've read my profile, then you know that I have partners. I don't want to trivialize what we could have here, but without being cocky, I can get sexual contact. I seek more than that. And I want you to remember that I'm not just a living fetish. If you want to see somebody that is transgender doing something hot, you can turn on your computer any day of the week. And there are plenty of people that only want things behind closed doors. That's just not me. |
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We have to be able to meet in public the first time we meet, and that meeting goes with the caveat that there will be no expectations, nor requirements of any BDSM play /sexual contact as a result.
I'm posting this because I'm very tired of explaining this to people. This should be a baseline for anybody meeting, and forget whether they have any LGBTQ+ identity things like I've got. This is a safety thing. Also, we need to make sure that what we enjoy about each other online is still true when we meet each other in person.
I must add with a deep sigh that I really don't want our first meeting to be some pump and a dump in a hotel room. That isn't sexy to me. Yes, there is a place for a liaison like that at some point, but that should be an excursion for us, not the sum total of what our relationship is. And my general experience is that the people that want that would be ashamed to be seen with me in public.
Finally, let me put this in no uncertain terms: unless you are absolutely blind and deaf, you can observe the political climate just like I have. To be willing to meet me in public is to be willing to put yourself in danger. For you, that is a temporary state of being. For me, it is 24/7/365. If I'm willing to meet you in public, then I'm willing to put myself in danger because that's how well I think we have connected. If you are not willing to do the same for me, that really says it all to me.
No judgment for anybody who would rather opt to stay out of danger. That is actually very reasonable. |
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I'm fully vaccinated. In fact, not only have I had four COVID vaccines, but I do my best to keep up on my other vaccines also. At the core, I am a scientist, and I do not allow rumor, propaganda, political discourse, religion, ignorance, racism, bigotry, nor cognitive dissonance to determine what the facts are because facts are facts, and they are not opinions. They are facts. So, if you can get behind this, then we are definitely already in tune on some very basic levels. But if I just offended you, if I made you want to shout at me about how wrong I am about vaccines and science and facts, then we are not compatible. Save yourself some time and move on. |
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I want to tell everybody that is written to me that I'm very flattered by all of the lovely and wonderful attention that everybody has given to me, as well as the beautiful compliments. I'm going to get a swell head, but I sincerely appreciate them.
Part of my bimbo nature is that I'm very very susceptible to flattery. And when somebody is truly dominant, I have a very difficult time refusing them in vanilla world. But I'm telling you this because when it comes to email we need to communicate. So please understand that I don't want our communication to become a back and forth online erotica novel. We will have plenty of time for the BDSM realm in person.
My last thought for this entry is about 24/7/365. There are several people that have approached me that seem very genuine about it. But to give up everything is a one-time deal, and if somebody lives far away, it's an impossible expense for me. So please understand that if you want me to truly consider this, I need to know that your offer is real. Show me the space. Tell me about what you do that keeps you financially stable. Tell me also what you expect from a 24/7/365 servitude?
I'm not going to promise anybody anything in this journal entry. The purpose of this is to inform you so that when you write, you know that I'm listening, but this will also save a little bit of time for both of us. |
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Many people have commented on my hair. I think I should tell you that what you were seeing in the pictures are wigs. Make no mistake, I would love love to have natural hair like that, but my body has betrayed me in that regard.
But wigs are not the end of the world. Ultimately, I imagine that it would be a very very expensive journey to suddenly regain what I have lost in that regard. Lol, wigs are much more affordable!
When I've mentioned this, I've heard a lot of people tell me that they will wave some sort of magic wand, and by submitting to them somehow my hair will regrow itself. Right.
If anybody out there has some actual science, that's always interesting, but I seriously doubt I'm going to get much of it on a site of kink personals! |
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Got this from someone else's journal. Seems like fun to me!
Question: one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question. Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you.
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If you are not local to the DC Metro area, please know that whist it is always flattering to be contacted, I really want to interact with those that can interact with me in the real world, please.
I acknowledge that there must be someone that has the resources to buy me a plane or train ticket, and scoop me up to kneel before them halfway across the world. But the odds are 99.9% that isn't the case.
So I'm asking that you keep in mind I am willing to relocate, but that requires ti e, and mutual agreement and resources. Conversely, if you regularly get to the DC area, then let's get together and paint the town red.... *after* we have an initial public meeting. If you can't be seen with me in public, then I am not for you. (But no judgement!) |
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Sigh. I'm constantly still blown away that I need to say this every so often, but here I am again:
If you want a reply from me, your initial email to me needs to be more than just one and two words sentences. I took a long time writing my profile, and it's very disheartening to get an email that is just, "Hey!" or "Hello!" or "How are you?" or stuff like that. That's how you start off on email, and I know this might be a surprise to a lot of people, but then you need to put something after it.
And if you really do sincerely feel that is too much for you, then just pass me by. Nothing personal! |
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