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I go back and forth with a S/M lifestyle. Sometimes I just want vanilla, sometimes I want anything but vanilla. I am currently experiencing the latter and feel its going to stick around for a long time. I have a dominant personality by nature, and I've always been a bossy one so being a domme fit my personality best. Its currently what I'm looking for. However, there are times, when I just wanna submit to someone and let go. I have my limits though on how much i can "let go", so its hard to be the submissive one. I know one thing for certain - I cannot fit into a 24/7 lifestyle, where I make every decision of every moment for someone. I don't have the time or patience for that. I look at this part of my life to be joyful and fun (however one sees fun) and when it becomes a 2nd job or a chore, then I don't see it as fun anymore. I'm flexible, I expect others to be as well.
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