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| I am an intelligent talented and educated male that is willing to fill the position of slave to a qualified and motivated Master/Mistress. I am not submissive, I am a slave that will contractually agree to serve my Master/Mistress. Period. Length of contract and particulars are up for the Masters/Mistresses approval. Strict guidelines are: Nothing that will permanently harm, scar, or disfigure the slave, no scat, waterworks, blood, children, or animals to be used or harmed, and I am a straight male, anything else my Master(preferably Mistress) desires is able to be accommodated.
For the definition of the treatment of slaves please refer to Exodus 21 of the Old Testament text
I serve out of an obligation to my word. I seek to assist you in becoming successful in any venture or goal you see fit to attain.
Think of it as the crabs in a bucket theory in reverse. My goal is to push you up in an effort that you will become so successful as to be able to pull me forward. You are the big picture, idea weaver. I am the specialist that does the grunt work, whether that be task oriented as in driver, personal assistant, butler, etc. or stress relief,body servant, muse, toy, or escape. My job is to do, with out question, to obey, so that you can focus on these other tasks that will ultimately result in O/our success.
That being said I am well educated, well versed, intelligent, and competent. I can fit in at a family picnic or BBQ or a gala event in a tux. I am a pack mentality male and have specific alpha male composure. I am extremely honest, loyal, and conservative, with no morals or conscience beyond the agreed upon service between this slave and my Master/Mistress. I will do whatever is required to assist you in your endevours and desires.
Those who succeed tend to associate with other successful people which in turn creates a circle of success and these are the circles that I am typically associated, as I have no desire to be successful outwardly, my success is derived from the circle of influence that I can draw upon. I keep very little for myself and tend to give most everything away so in this vain I have been blessed to receive more than I deserve.
This is a quote from a Domme that I respect
'a slave is someone who makes an agreement to do what they are told without question or argument. You don't need to be a submissive to accomplish this, you just need to be able to make and uphold the agreement of being a slave. A slave has no choice while a submissive does. A submissive is someone who by their nature yields to someone of stronger will. To me being submissive is more of a personality trait, whereas being a slave is a choice. Not all submissives make good slaves. Some submissives are not willing or able to make the agreements needed to be a true slave, and/or they are not willing to uphold those agreements once made.'
This is a quote from a female sub that I find accurate
Currently, there is a conversation taking place about obedience and submission. There was one statement in particular which raised my pique. Please know that the following is framed from my own perspective. *“true submission is when you really, really do not want to do something, but you do it anyway.”* I disagree. The correct statement would read: 'Obedience begins the first time you really do not want to do something, but you do it anyway.' What is the difference? Submission is a psychological state of being wherein one puts aside their own will in favor of that of another. Obedience is an active state wherein one acts in accordance to another person’s direction. One is a state of mind, the other is action oriented. These two work hand in hand and yet are not interchangeable notions. If we look at submission as an alignment to his will, then obedience is part of the action plan toward that goal. Alignment to his will is a fundamental piece of submission. Would it be possible for someone to submit wholly to another person without an implicit agreement and willingness to walk the path set before them by their Master? Can it be called submission if at the back of your mind, you question every decision he makes? Even if you obey every command, if you are questioning it either verbally or via your own interior dialogue, is that submission? No - it is obedience, just that, and nothing more. In some ways, it is easier to simply obey. Submission is a process, ongoing, penetrative, with honest self-reflection. I am fortunate to be with someone who inspires the desire to submit as if it were a flame. I burn to be in his presence. One stroke from his finger makes me melt, not just sexually, but the interior walls, the barricades to my psyche, all the defenses I have cultivated in the last forty-four years, they soften like butter and a sweet relaxation washes over me. I am as open and vulnerable to him as is possible for me *at this time.* I say *at this time* because we are evolving, ever growing, ever changing and tomorrow, my submission to his will may look different or the changes may be so subtle and gradual that without time-lapse photography may not be seen with the naked eye. My obedience to him has evolved in accordance to my submission. Obedience is the driving force for me. To disobey would be anathema to me. I obey because primarily, it would hurt me to do otherwise. Secondarily, it would hurt to witness his reaction to open disobedience. These are two different things, two different motivators, both ‘moving away’ motivators. I also have moving towards motivators, the satisfaction of a job well done, the approval and the “good girl”. Sometimes people have both kinds of motivators. Internal and external validations are common needs. While hearing that he is pleased is like honey on my tongue, I do not need to hear it for each individual task in order to be fulfilled. Back to the statement: 'Obedience begins the first time you really do not want to do something, but you do it anyway.' In the beginning of a relationship, service often develops along the lines of doing for another the things we enjoy doing. When self-identified submissives/slaves are with someone new, we often suggest the things we know we do well as ways to serve. “I love making tea” and so he says “make me some tea”. It isn’t obedience – its service. He says he would love a massage and we say we would love to give him a massage. Then he says, “Clean out the kitty litter pan.” And we hesitate, why? Because cleaning out the kitty litter pan isn’t sexy, we don’t look our best hunched over scooping poop, this isn’t fun! But we do it anyway, some of us, push the internal dialogue aside, and make the choice to obey. And there it is – the beginning of obedience – doing something you really do not want to do. Each new task requires that choice. Eventually, with alignment of will, through the process of submission, one may reach the point where there is no negative internal dialogue, no questioning of directions, and only rewards – a quiet mind, a gentle spirit, the joy of being useful – and it is no longer a task by task choice, but an inherent *obedience to his will*. So in step with his thoughts and desires that one’s own internal voices no longer struggle, instead they become unquestioning and deliberate in their own willingness to serve. This journey we, SJ and I, have embarked upon together, is a journey with no predetermined destination, no space and time where we may reflect and say “We’re here!” We continue, he as a Master, and I as his slave, and each is responsible for themselves - actions, thoughts, words, intent. I continue to both through my actions and my state of mind serve him completely, unquestioning and without judgment. That is my goal, to serve him with every fiber of my being. Obedience and submission congruent with his will." fairerthanshe
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