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Im fun and smart, and it would be great to find someone with whom I can connect. I work a very full time job (often 60-70 hour weeks) and need to find a way to relax and unwind after a very long day...or week. I have been in the lifestyle for over a decade, regularly per self-bondage, but that isnt doing it for me anymore. I am a submissive who is very seriously considering that he may be more of a slave at heart. TPE interests me. Gender and sexuality matter very little. I, myself, am more than a transman (have been on T, but pre-SRS). It is important to connect on more than one level, understand the other person, enjoy their company, and be reliable. I want to take care of another person as much as I know that I need someone to watch out for me. I tend to burn the candle at both ends as I am a hard worker and ambitious in life. Im somewhere between average and fit - I enjoy going to the gym, but my current work schedule leaves little to no time for that detour.

I love chains, cages, posture collars, closets, cupboards, blindfolds, hoods, and have many fantasies that I wish would come true! No public play that risks my bdsm life spilling over into the view of the vanilla world. I have no desire to push my lifestyle on those who do not share it. Also, I will not do anything that would risk my job or keep me from doing it to the best of my ability. Im not entirely opposed to photos, but for professional reasons I do not wish to post it outright. It would take a specific relationship to let that guard down.
sluttobeused
 
 Age: 30
 West bloomfield, Michigan