In the BDSM scene it took no time at all for me to realize just how much it was missing from my life. I consider myself a 'natural' Dominant since nothing I do is provoked.
It is only a response of true flow.

I am looking for a Submissive woman that carries herself with intelligence and confidence. Someone that would appreciate my creativity and will allow things to flow. My sub will be conscious of her needs, sensitive and aware. Sharing is a key word here.

Although revolving around sex, it's not just about sexual encounters. My wish is for an open relationship based on trust, sharing, and care. Perhaps it sounds unusual but from this may emerge real friendship that flows without stress and drama. I never rush into things and would like to spend time getting to know you, your needs and passions and connect with you.
Sense of safety and healthy boundaries is a must and will enforce a great experience for both of us.

The more I got into the BDSM realm, I learned about 'Tantric' sex as well. Tying the two is an ultimate for me. Briefly (very briefly), Tantric sex is bringing any sexual act into higher realms in terms of intensity and pleasure that goes beyond lust. Its methods allow the cultivation of sexual energy which (in men) allows for total control of the Orgasm, thus, being capable to truly endure for hours and completely satisfy their woman.

More about me, I am 5'8'' very handsome with a a thin/athletic build. I am very healthy, strong and very caring and respectful. I am extremely creative and rarely repeat myself.

My goal becomes the 'scene' and the lovemaking and not the typical 'macho' Orgasm rush.

Here are some guidelines for my Sub:

You should be at least as curious as me with a very high sexual drive and exploratory side. Looks is important but ultimately, it is the way you carry yourself.

1. Intelligent that goes beyond degrees

2. Passionate high sex drive coupled with curiosity

3. Wanting to connect and share

4. Sensitive and tender

5. Submission as a healthy role and not a manifestation of weakness.