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Where to begin... I am a smart, stable, successful man, and was quite happy with the world I had created for myself. I've always harbored some dominant desires, but didn't act on them in the bedroom, though some of my friends probably have suspicions just from my everyday personality... Anyway, all was well and good and vanilla until a little sub found me, figured me out, and convinced me to embrace what I wanted all along. And thus I find myself here. Because I didn't know what I was missing. The dynamic of a D/s relationship, protecting and taking care of another, and being served in turn - it was just intoxicating, and I want more. Problematically, I don't know very many people who are comfortable with any of this, much less have a network of friends like I do in the rest of my life, so it's hard to meet kinky people. More problematically, I have a pretty full life as is, and most of it isn't compatible with being public about wanting a D/s relationship. So I have to be very cautious. Please understand. That's my story. What else might you like to know? I read a lot. I am more up to date on current events than anyone else outside the beltway. I like to travel. I run my own company. I used to do some pretty amazing, if not exactly pure as driven snow, things for a living. My eyes are open to the world. What I'm looking for: Someone smart, successful, and engaging. I realize that success comes in different forms, and that someone who has chosen an alternative or esoteric path might only be known as a success in a small community, but I want someone who is accomplishing things, even if it's only known to them. So someone's who's totally externally awesome, yet craves the dynamic of protection and care and service. That, of course, is the total package. I'd be happy to talk to anyone, if only just to make friends. So drop me a line.
oneaday
 
 Age: 40
 SE WV, West Virginia