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So I have years of experience dabbling here and there at play parties and with some casual partners and I have a couple of solid years of experience with non-live-in 24/7 relationships. I've played enough to know that I love inflicting pain, leaving marks, biting, slapping, strapping, cutting, etc. I love tying a person down and bringing them to orgasm as many times as their body will allow. I've been with enough people with trauma to have a deep understanding of consent, and a continual awareness of the body language of whomever I am with in order to maintain that consent. I have a tendency to build intensity slowly during play, especially with someone new. I do not get so deep into dom space that I lose that focus on my sub. I prefer scene play over 24/7, but some aspects of continual dominance creep in to the relationships I've had with play friends in the past. I have a preference for subtlety and am still searching for an experience with someone who will pay close enough attention to catch the nuances of speech and gesture I want to explore.

I have a wonderland of curiosities in my head around shibari, and though I've dabbled here and there with ropework, I've not yet found someone who had the patience to let me fiddle around with them to learn.

I believe in intimacy. I think that a scene shared is a beautiful closeness and expression of paramount vulnerability. I think that aftercare is the time when that closeness can be in a shared space where we both come down soft (and potentially cum hard). However, there are times when it seems fitting to wrestle someone to the ground, spank them bruised and then fuck their brains out while they whimper.

I am in a poly relationship that I have zero intention of leaving. I prefer occasional daytime play, but this is negotiable. I would like to share coffee as well as welts.

Disclaimer (because this is a deal-breaker or -maker for some): I have an average-sized cock with a lot of stamina. If that's "something you can deal with", we're probably not a good match. If that's something you look for specifically, that's a huge plus.

I am familiar with the concept of gender as a continuum, and have no preferences as to your identity. I have had experiences with men, women, transfolk, genderfluid, and agender people. I am accommodating to dysphoria, and understand if there are parts of you that are not to be touched/addressed/referenced. I am happy to use whatever terms you like for your bits. I am comfortable with the use of whatever pronouns you prefer, and default to they/them.

I am looking for someone, I don't know who yet. I am open on age, race, gender expression, body type and size. I tend to tilt towards those smaller and younger than me, but it is likely that your brain and heart can turn me on to your body, as I am a person for whom attraction is more weighted toward what is inside of you.

If this overly verbose rambling has held your attention thusfar, and you find yourself drawn to it more than a couple of times, please send me a note. The worst that happens is we waste an hour getting coffee and move on with our lives. Wait. Coffee is never a waste of an hour...

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cutimisa143
 
 Age: 35
 Elkton, Maryland