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clovenpine

I'm a service-oriented girl in search of friends, play partners, and those experienced in the Leather lifestyle.
12/6/2007 10:39:08 AM
I'm aware that my profile seems a little...hmm...aggressive.  I need to edit a little, but rest assured that my assertions about not being "a true submissive" are mainly a matter of grammar.  Roll your eyes if you must, but this is an important distinction for me.

"Submissive," to me, is an adjective.  I can be a submissive girl, I can be a submissive partner or player, but I'm not just a submissive anymore than I'm just a blonde or a voluptuous  "Submissive" isn't a noun that defines what I am; it's a modifier that describes how I can be.

Because of its connotations, I don't even particularly like to use those words, "submissive" and "submit."  When asked, "Are you a submissive," I always answer, "No, I'm a person.  I choose to defer my will to the will of my partner, if it pleases him for me to do so.  What are you?"

I'm a smartass like that sometimes. ;)

Anyways...don't be put off by my big-girl swagger.  And if you have questions, just ask.

Off-topic: Why isn't there  a spell checker for journal entries?  That's dumb.
LadyBichella
 
 Age: 35
 Near Worcester, Massachusetts