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cloudedskies

Well hopefully you have come here to see what I am interested in. Being a sub, I don't care about the sex aspect of BDSM. Yes, it is fun, but with my sub nature, my pleasure comes from making others happy and satisfied. That being, said I do enjoy talking kink but I'm looking for a vanilla connection as well as the anticipation of a long term relationship. My experience level is moderate with limits being held on my personal moral values and anything that may affect my career. In general I am nerdy and successful in my career. My finances are sound and I don't mind "findom" in a relationship (actually I encourage it) but I will not spend money just to have a conversation with someone I don't know. Trust and respect are very important to me in D/s. Other than this, I am very open to exploring and have studied many aspects of the lifestyle from the psychological to creating strong bonds. Due to my work I cannot post a picture publicly but if you ask, I will send them via message. If your interests do not align with mine, I still love to have friends and enjoy talking about the lifestyle or anything for that matter. If you are far from my current location but think there may be an opportunity for a connection, by all means talk to me. Columbus Ohio is where I reside. Distance is no issue for I travel a lot. I try my best to treat everyone with respect when talking so it is appreciated in return. If I message you, it is probably because our interest align or I want to know more and see if we may be a fit. I am an open book so feel free to ask me about anything in vanilla or kink. Frequent communication is great so if you would like to instant message or anything of the such, just ask! If you have read all of this, please say hello because I'm guessing that something hasn't already turned you away from my page.
10/11/2015 3:09:21 AM
Met a new Domme last night. She was very nice and it's refreshing to have a conversation with someone who is real and serious about the life. Not only to have intelligent conversation about the lifestyle but also vanilla. We talked for hours and it was lovely. Chastity came up in the conversation and it's definitely in my curiosity. In reality even if I don't like it, I don't want a choice of whether or not it is enforced. Giving up that control is what excites me. I'm eager to learn more from Her as well as hopefully be able to give up control for Her provided everything goes right from here on out! We have a lot of common interests which is amazing and She's been very kind thus far. Even though there is a lot of fakes and instas on here, there are the occasional gems. You just have to dig for them.
6/8/2013 10:17:58 PM
Is anyone out there real?
Loraluv
 
 Age: 39
 Tampa, Florida