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I am a married white professional in Plymouth stuck in a loveless, sexless marriage. Divorce is not currently an option yet I still have strong needs for an emotional and physical connection. I won't allow myself to be a martyr or a monk. I am looking to find someone real, someone who actually wants fun and who has the capacity to feel happiness. If that woman were also kinky and sexy, well ... she would never have to worry who will make the first move. I am 5'11 and 185lbs. I am in average shape now but getting better ever day. I am fairly strong for my size. I am bald and wear a goatee. I am educated, maintain a strong work ethic and am a good provider. My interests include movies, books, social issues, the environment and other typical stuff. Additionally, I do a lot of thinking about deeper issues which works out well when talking with people interested in real conversations, less so with people only interested in cyclical small talk. Sexually, I must admit that I have a strong deviant streak. I am turned on by BDSM and hoping to find a woman with similar fantasies. I can easily switch from Dom to sub, so if you have a strong predilection for one role in the bedroom, I can fill the other. I play safe and use safe words. As a sub I have a very high pain tolerance and would love to find a woman who wants to push my limits. As a Dom, I like to push yours but will absolutely will respect your thresholds. I am open minded about your sexual interests, not so much because I am into everything, but I don't have a lot of sexual hang ups, so if I can make you happy, it makes you that much more into seeing me. As a lover I pride myself on working very hard. I am very orally generous and never have had a challenge bringing a woman to climax multiple times per session. I am seeking an attractive, kinky woman in MN who is looking for something more than just getting through each day. I want to feel the excitement and anticipation building up to seeing a woman who is just as keyed up towards me. Yes I want all the horny fantasies to come true and, Hell yes! I want to make you cum harder than you ever have before. But I also want to feel affection, closeness and something to look forward to. The "sensitive" part of me might be hard for some people to reconcile with the kinky part of me, but they are both there and are very powerful drivers. Ideally, I am looking for a longer term relationship, possibly with someone in the same boat. I am in the position that a connection and satisfaction can only be found outside of marriage, perhaps you are too and we can fulfill each other's needs. I think I am writing this ad primarily for attached women. I certainly would not object to single women who are interested in me. However the reality is that I must pursue this discretely. I would not always have the flexibility to give what a pretty single woman should expect. However you know yourself and your needs. I just ask that anyone interested be level headed enough to accept that my marital situation is not likely to change in the near future. If you are interested in some fun kinky play and possibly a deeper connection, please message me.
Seeking2Pls
 
 Age: 49
  Florida