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As a Goddess you shouldn't have to do the bitch tasks. Let me take care of them for you. Dusting, laundry, ironing, vacuuming, sweeping, bathroom scrubbing, lawn mowing, pool cleaning, cooking, chauffeuring, massaging, running baths, etc... I will be your slave, manservant, lackey, underling, and stooge. I will do your bidding. In turn I seek someone to be my slave driver. She is the one who pushes me hard and keeps me focused. She is hard to please and has very high standards for service. She rewards occasionally, but punishes often. She knows what she wants and will mold me into the perfect slave. I know the Ying to my yang is out there. If this is you, please don't hesitate to contact me.

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1/23/2017 5:47:18 AM

I have plenty of experience in the role of a submissive, but I have never been a slave.  All of my experiences have ended with me regaining control of my life after the play has ended.   In some ways that’s good because it allows me to function in the real world with a sense of normalcy.   The real me is hidden deeply and I have to trust someone before I show them my other side.

 

Yet, I am fascinated by the thought of being owned as a slave.  It’s not just the kink, which is kind of a given in a female led relationship.  For me the loss of self-determination is a powerful aphrodisiac.  Living a life where someone else makes the rules, sets the standards, establishes the routines, etc… along with idea that I will need to sacrifice in so many ways in order to make Her happy.   I would have to do things I wouldn’t like, but that is actually part of the allure.  Doing things strictly for Her pleasure.

 

That is why I don’t need a perfect match when it comes to the kinks.  Sure, I have a vision of what it will look like, but ultimately it will look differently than whatever I have in my head.   What I seek is really more than just a kinky woman.  You can find women who are into all kinds of things, if you’re into a specific fetish.  However, the woman I seek is comfortable in the dominant role at all times, and that kind of woman is rare. 

 

There is a couple from Dallas that I have played with before that live as Mistress and slave as well as husband and wife.  They are two of the happiest people I know.  Why?  Because they are living as they were intended to live.  No repressed fantasies, no hidden agendas, no lies, no confusion in their roles.  They are truly a team, and live in the role that suits both of them best.   And yes they love each other deeply even though she doesn’t allow him to have sex with her.   They are giving each other what they need in different ways.

 

But I also don’t believe that Mistress-slave happens overnight.  The couple that I referenced above went through a six month trial period before taking the plunge and getting married.  She kept him engaged and challenged, and eventually molded him into Her ideal slave husband.  In their case, she is the bread winner and he stays at home keeping house.  They both are exceptional at what they do.  She has created her own company and does very well financially, and he keeps a spotless house. 

 

So something like their arrangement is appealing to me.  For whatever reason, I was wired this way.  The kinks are great, but in my case there is just more to it than that. 


1/10/2017 3:29:10 AM
Today's message of the day.  "Would you like to have a threesome with me and my girlfriend?"

Uhhh....sure.  And do you also have some swampland in Florida for sale?


12/27/2016 3:07:34 AM
Sorry, but I never switch.  If you like submitting someone else will need to be doing the Domming. 

12/25/2016 3:52:32 AM
Wishing A/all my kinky friends a very "Cruel Yule".  Happy Holidays!

12/21/2016 4:51:44 AM
I don't know how much longer I'll be on this site.  I'm pretty sure that half of the profiles I read here are fake.  Scam after scam, fake pics, fake gender, fake info, nobody reads, constant phishing for email addresses, etc...  Here's what a typical one looks like:

Hi, I am ......  Are you will to be my slave?  Write me at ....@.com

A big improvement would be to include some kind of verification process for profiles.  Most regular dating sites already do that.  I'm not sure why collarme is behind the times.

12/20/2016 3:24:59 AM
Okay, I'm figuring this site out.  I've received a lot of replies that are either scams or from people who are not very realistic.  Here's a little more information about contacting me. 

This is not going to sound very submissive, but I don't want to waste Your time nor mine.  First off, my name is David (or david if you prefer).  I haven't earned the title of "slave" yet, so please use my name for now.  If I wind up in your service then you can rename me whatever you want.

Before I give out any personal information, I need to know that the person I am communicating with is real.  That comes through messaging back and forth and slowly building trust.  I know it takes time, but that's how any relationship works.  In the few days I've been on this site, I've already figured out that a lot of people have a short attention span.  We don't have to talk about kinks right off the bat.  In fact I'd rather get to know you as real human being first.

I wasn't sure what to check as far as the "relocation" tab.  Here's the way I see it.  My preference is to find someone who is local to my area first.  If that search proves to be unsuccessful, then I'll expand my search area and even consider relocating if I find the right Domme.  Local means an hour or so drive between your location and mine.  No, I won't hop a plane to some remote location in the Middle East because you're dominant and told me so.  No, I'm not going to buy a stranger a plane ticket to come visit me.  There are a lot of Fin Dommes on this site who ask for money before even saying "hello".  Not interested.  Can we be realistic about this?

12/14/2016 5:38:33 AM
It's my first day here.  Be gentle.

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kimmykunt
 
 Age: 29
 Albuquerque, New Mexico