What is it with so many "Doms" on here that believe that women are punching bags (so to speak)? They believe that just because a woman chooses to submit that they are weak, useless, no good creatures that deserve to be treated worse than most people would dare treat their animals. i CHOOSE to submit. That does not mean that i am less of a human being or deserve to be disrespected or mistreated. For that matter, so many seem to believe that submissive equals slave, that there is NO difference. Sorry Guys, but i disagree. It won't happen. Don't try to turn me in to someone i am. i assure You i will do the same for You.
i am in to a wide array of things, both in the lifestyle and out. A lot of what i enjoy depends on who i am with and what my comfort/trust level with them is. You earn my trust and respect and You will be a lot more likely to gain access to the more in depth parts of who i am. i will tell You this. i am intellectual and expect the person i am involved with to be the same. If You don't know the difference between their and they're, wonder and wander and the sort, then You probably don't need to bother wasting time for either one of U/us. i expect to be able to hold a conversation with a man that i am involved with, so please be able to speak intellectually. Mind You, i said i want to hold a conversation with ... that does not mean that i want to be talked at or down to. Again, there is a difference.
Please understand that, while i do enjoy my submissive life, i do have a life outside of the D/s lifestyle. i have a job, a child, family, friends and a household that i have to include in my day to day life. If You are looking for someone that will devote every waking (and sometimes sleeping) moment to You, You are probably looking in the wrong place.
If after all of that you are still interested in talking (yes, i know that i am a bit opinionated about these things. i'm quite opinionated about a great many things. Hence why i say that intellect is a must), please feel free to message me. |