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First let me say that just because i am submissive does not mean that i am mindless. It also does not mean that i will submit to anyone who calls Themselves a Dom. Submission, for me at least, requires a great deal of trust. i have to know that Whomever holds the key to me has nothing but my best interest at heart. It is also important to know that, while i am primarily submissive, i do have a dominant side. A little about me. i am a single mom of a beautiful 9 year old boy. He is my first and main priority, no matter what relationship i am in or what the needs of the Dom i may be serving are. If You have a problem with that, You should go ahead to the next profile. i am a Medical Assistant, but work full time in the Home Health industry. i am working toward my RN, although i have had to take the last year off. i am looking to start school back up in the summer. Needless to say, between full time work, full time mom and school, i don't have a lot of spare time, but the time that i do have, i would devote fully to a man whom i felt was worthy of such. i am poly by nature, but i have no doubt that i could live a monogamous lifestyle without a lot of problems. It all depends on the situation and person with which i am involved. if You would like to know more, please feel free to message me. Oh, and one more thing ... i am obviously a bbw, so if that is a problem for You, don't waste anyone's time by messaging me with nasty remarks. They won't offend me, upset me or hurt my feelings.

7/31/2011 9:56:55 PM

i tend to enjoy sitting around naked when i get the chance, but today ... not so much. i'm sitting on the couch topless because it hurts too much to put a shirt on. Apparently the sun was a little more intense than i realized it was going to be while i was at the river today. Note to self: check UV index next time there are river plans

6/24/2011 2:31:45 PM

What is it with so many "Doms" on here that believe that women are punching bags (so to speak)? They believe that just because a woman chooses to submit that they are weak, useless, no good creatures that deserve to be treated worse than most people would dare treat their animals. i CHOOSE to submit. That does not mean that i am less of a human being or deserve to be disrespected or mistreated.  For that matter, so many seem to believe that submissive equals slave, that there is NO difference. Sorry Guys, but i disagree. It won't happen. Don't try to turn me in to someone i am. i assure You i will do the same for You.

i am in to a wide array of things, both in the lifestyle and out. A lot of what i enjoy depends on who i am with and what my comfort/trust level with them is. You earn my trust and respect and You will be a lot more likely to gain access to the more in depth parts of who i am. i will tell You this. i am intellectual and expect the person i am involved with to be the same. If You don't know the difference between their and they're, wonder and wander and the sort, then You probably don't need to bother wasting time for either one of U/us. i expect to be able to hold a conversation with a man that i am involved with, so please be able to speak intellectually. Mind You, i said i want to hold a conversation with ... that does not mean that i want to be talked at or down to. Again, there is a difference.

Please understand that, while i do enjoy my submissive life, i do have a life outside of the D/s lifestyle. i have a job, a child, family, friends and a household that i have to include in my day to day life. If You are looking for someone that will devote every waking (and sometimes sleeping) moment to You, You are probably looking in the wrong place.

If after all of that you are still interested in talking (yes, i know that i am a bit opinionated about these things. i'm quite opinionated about a great many things. Hence why i say that intellect is a must), please feel free to message me. 

dragonfly0001
 
 Age: 35
 Northampton, United Kingdom