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Something that I have learned over the years is that (in the beginning of a partnership/relationship) submissives hold all of the power (in the beginning - I said). Submission is not something that can be demanded - it's something that must be given. Submission is the ultimate love, the ultimate trust, and the ultimate gift. So, if you're one of those Doms that believes that by default you should be called "Sir" or "Master" - think again - you have to prove your worthy of being "Sir" or "Master." But when a submissive does find the trust, love and commitment to surrender and submit to a master, it is the most amazing and beautiful thing that can ever be experienced between two people. Surrendering my life to another human being means completely trusting that the person in control has my best interest in mind at all times. It means, that I trust that they know my needs better than I do, and that's why I obey. I could never be a Domme. Why? Simple. As a Dom/Domme you take full responsibility for the life and well being of someone else. It's not about having every fantasy you've ever wanted, come to life. It's not about having someone else to serve you, and lick the lint from between your filthy toes. It's HUGE. It's the life of another human being... a fragile human being in your control. I think that the greatest insult to this lifestyle does not come from a submissive who fails to obey every order -but from Doms who fail to discover the person that they own before taking ownership. Every person that feels that natural tendency towards being submissive in a relationship, is like a blank canvas. If a master takes the time to slowly discover the full potential of that canvas, then a submissive can be turned into an amazing piece of art that was designed/trained specifically for that master. But if a Dom rushes to cover the entire canvas before he knows what he's working with - then it becomes wasted, unwanted, and broken art. Please Note : If you are too lazy/unmotivated/uninteresting to have put any information in your profile - then don't message me OR you should expect me to be a bitch when you do message me. If you don't have the ability to put in the effort in your profile, then I'll assume you don't have the ability to put effort into conversing, or a relationship (end of note).
6/17/2012 3:03:29 PM

I find arrogance, a sense of entitlement, and stupidity to be three of the most unattractive qualities that a man can have. Confidence is attractive - arrogance is not.

If you are arrogant, or have a sense of entitlement, there isn't much advice that I can give you - other then - get over yourself. You have a dominant side/personality, but that does not mean you're a god... Just because I am submissive and you are Dominant does not mean (for a single second) that I am YOUR slave, slut, whore, cumbucket, etc, etc, etc. Until you earn my submission, you're no different then a guy at the bar offering to buy me a drink... and let me assure you that if his opening line was, "do you want to choke on my cock" - I would let him pay for my drinks all night long, and then leave him at the bar wondering what happened.

If you're stupid - here are a few easy helpers for you:

1. A "HUN" (spelled with a "u") is most commonly defined as a barbaric person -- or a destroyer of something.

* so when you say "hey hun" it's not a sweet and endearing greeting... it's really more of an insult... and while I'm smart enough to figure out that what you mean to say is "hi hon" as in the abbreviation for "honey"... I don't find it the least bit appealing to have to compensate for your stupidity as a first impression.

2. Don't send me some stupid blanket email that you worked on for however long, thinking that you'd created the perfect catch-all message. Why? because you aren't that smooth -- and despite your edits, revisions, and re-revisions... you'd be better off with something that reflects that you've actually read my profile.

So, right now - more than likely.. there are many people thinking, "who the hell do you think you are? you're just some cum drinking whore slut who wants to be someone's bitch." Which to some vulgar capacity might be true.... but the beauty of this situation is that I have both a Vagina, and Brain. And since this is the internet - you'll have to make my brain happy before you'll ever get to my vagina. So leave your ego at the door, and remember at the end of the day, I'm still a Lady.
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