I read and respond to all emails from those within 200 miles of me. I'm not looking to control/micromanage you - just to have some kinky fun. I will gladly work with you to set up a rewards/punishments system to help you make a behavior change that you desire if you wish. I am mainly looking for an LTR with a lady between 40 & 60. That said, I would be quite happy finding one or more play partners of any age. Until very recently, I was only interested in playing with a couple/group if the sub(s) were female. However, a recent exchange has opened me to the possibility of Domming a m/f sub/sub couple with the understanding that I am straight so there would be no sexual contact between me and the male(s). While I prefer in-person, I will do online with a sub/switch female or couple seeking a male Dom to bring into play. I prefer that online be willing to provide visual proof of completion of task(s) assigned. I am also available to do BDSM (under conditions stated above) and/or G-rated photography within 2 hrs. drive or so of me. No smoking around me nor tobacco smell on your person. For us to be more than play partners (i.e long-term, committed relationship) non-smoker is a must. No illegal drugs. Prefer no tattoos, one or two small ones are acceptable. No trannys/CD's. Feel free to message me if anything above catches your interest. I'm on here pretty regularly. As stated in my journal chat does not work for me. There's a technical issue that I can't isolate. Chat requests are blocked for that reason.