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I am not One who frequents online sites trolling for fresh meat for another conquest or one night stands. My regular life trumps all of online entertainment and as such, My reason for being here is simple.
I am here to find My muse, My pet, and My direct. Any successful couple excels when everyone knows their place, their responsibilities, and accepts their expectations. In turn, each members contributions produce clear benefits that warrant the sacrifices that come from belonging. I seek a muse who can accept a supporting role and will excel when given a healthy dose of structure (rituals, routines, responsibilities, expectations) and impulsiveness (PDA kinky and not, responsible public humiliation nudity, an ability to adapt). I seek someone who flourishes with sane, adventurous guidance especially when this guidance is reinforced by trust and experience. I want someone who is well-rounded and can embrace the hobbies that fall outside the kinky spectrum.
I am here to find someone who wants to exit this site rather than exist on it.
- I believe that a Dominant is responsible for His partner(s) and the relationships overall well-being. As such, when He does something that self-focused and detrimental to the dynamic, He fails in his role as Lead. Being self-focused is not being dominant, it is being narrow-minded.
- I have no time for a submissive who believes that testing boundaries and the patience of her Dominant is her prerogative. Do it and I will provide an incentive to ensure that you never do it again.
- I am ambitious and love success. I seek a partner with a similar drive and NOT someone who fears the trappings of success nor do I want someone who is a gold digger or a financial manipulator. I am very generous to those I care for.
- I am looking for someone who craves to adore her Dominant, who will strive to please and excels when given the opportunity to demonstrate her commitment.
- I am also looking for someone with the smarts to be able to distinguish between service and exploitation. Being asked to serve is not a request to exploit. Having someone manipulate another strictly for Their benefit is not behavour that is healthy in long-term dynamic. Some might argue that a Master should have absolute control and power and as such should govern for His benefit period but as the popular saying says, absolute power corrupts absolutely. If you control another (TPE), you do have the responsibility to do so in a manner worthy of that type of power. Your direction should have goals, benefits and measurable outcomes or it is simple squandered power.
- I have already crossed the following items off my bucket list swam with sharks, joined the mile high club, ate dinner at a restaurant with a topless companion, been to burning man, spent a few hours in a medieval dungeon, been honoured for My generosity, traveled to Wisconsin, California, New York, Florida, Germany, Austria, Italy, Switzerland, Japan, China, Singapore, New Zealand, Mexico, and a few other less exotic locales. Some of these items are worth a repeat perances while other are not.
- I generally gravitate towards simple rather than the difficult.
- I am a minimalist and a realist.
- I am viewed by some as cold and distant. I make tough decisions which sometimes comes across as lacking compassion and machine like. I disagree but I will do what needs to be done to move forward.
- I hate arrogance especially when it masks deficiencies or mistakes.
- I pursue what I want and generally get what I desire. That is not to say that I sometimes covet something that I should not, and in those cases, I know when to let it go.
- Talking dirty to make a point is crass and speaks to a lack of intellect or imagination. Past partners have considered My tastes to gravitate toward the extreme but not to the point of being dangerous or prosecutable.
- I believe loyalty and honesty transcends this dynamics and speaks to one general character. For those who cannot be honest or loyal, I have no time or interest in engaging.
- I am scared stiff of snake.
Since you have made it this far, it is time to write back and I do monitor when people read My profile and write. Timeliness is important.
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