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THIS IS NOT A CONTRACT...but it could be, and so much more than that, if there is agreement and some simple levity with the right person, and i think You understand...
Respectfully, i have searched for a good person for so many years, and either life got in the way or people i thought were good turned out to be a terror...but hopefully, this will not fall on deaf ears, and i will be understood for my commitment and passion, as i try to find/understand and ultimately and hopefully, serve the elusive, compassionate Master/Mistress i have sought all this time--and therefor, Them knowing that i seek to understand Them as well...
In the time/times that i am in service, these are my desires..
NOT a demand list or RULES of the road, they are merely the desires that i have for being with an ideal Master/Mistress...my fantasies...and though they are wordy, i want to be totally honest and completely open with You, as You are hopefully understanding and intelligent...
As simply and concisely stated as i am able to convey, these are the desires:

-to be kept in constant chastity, with no means of ever having a genitally caused orgasm--though i can and do cum from anal sex, and that should be Her/His goal--and periodic prostate milking would be the norm.
-to Not be abused or mistreated in any way...we are human and have responsibilities , and these are not negotiable or insignificant parts, they are the whole. Loss of work or family/family-time is not acceptable, though understanding and support in my endeavors is a serious aphrodisiac.
-to be treated as a treasured pet, ultimately and desirously inclusive of a leash, a collar and being trained to the (sometimes) humiliating commands/demands and desires of its Master/Domme.
-to be restrained...when not in oral service or in public (unless the public is in a like-minded event/venue), gagged (ring or ball gag preferable)...when not in anal service, plugged (even when out together)...and when not in service at all, restrained to be/act and always reminded that i am nothing more than a pet, only able to move as a pet would.
-as pertains to the above desire, always treated as an equal in public and around my son/family/friends; though when alone or in venues of like-minded people/events, such as gatherings or establishments that we visit catering to gay or lifestylists, i will know, be/be reminded of, my place, and proudly kept there.
-to be of service and always be reminded of my place...punishment as needed or desired (by either party), but not sadistically or abusively. When however, sadism and/or punishment is desired/required, understanding of reality and the afore-mentioned treasuring of a prized pet and its worth, and the human condition when it comes to being able to work and live/raise my son functionally.
-to be safely used by groups...made to service multiple people in satisfying ways, and used well in front of my Mistress/Master so that He/She may see not only my delight and appreciation for the ability to serve Him/Her and be used as it should, but also my desire and wish to serve Her/His fantasies and voyeuristic/Masterful tendencies as i should...making Her/Him proud that He/She has a willing and obedient sexual being under Their control, that will strive in earnest to please Him/Her in what He/She possesses. To be taken to events/venues and places where the Master/Mistress can sit back and watch Their toy being used by multiple people...constantly entertained and happy to remind the toy (sometimes in the most humiliating ways and terms), of what the pet/slave is and how it makes Him/Her happy to witness it performing under Her/His control, as His/Her toy, Her/His slut and His/Her shareable possession. Double penetration, anally, would be welcome, and though never experienced, has always been, humiliatingly desired.
-as an addition to the above...to be made to know and appreciate my position and possession as a pet/toy, and a bit of solace to my Master/Mistress...understanding that when i am spending time with Him/Her, that i am there ONLY for Her/His enjoyment, pleasure and demand, as well as those He/She allows to use me...and thus, when the Master/Mistress honors me with groups, as He/She will ensure my good use, hopefully pleased by my enthusiastic willingness to serve and perform for Him/Her, guaranteeing my safety and security. However, reminders during such service, (and in crude/nasty terms, hopefully), of my place, of He/She who owns what is being used, and what i am there for is highly recommended. In addition, condoms will ALWAYS be a requirement She/He will enforce when others are allowed to be with me...and the Mistress/Master will ALWAYS be present when He/She allows others to be present, at not time leaving me alone to be abused or hurt in any way.
-group use at the very least, once a month, if possible.
-as an addition to what was stated before, in regards to NO genitally inspired orgasms...teasing, playing with and humiliation of my genitals is welcome, but not pleasure to the point of ejaculation. A chastity device would be desired and greatly appreciated (can substitute as a collar, especially if attached to a leash), and would ensure the slave/pet status to both it and its Master/Mistress...this can and hopefully would entail (excuse the play on words), a tail, worn in place of a plug, to continually remind my Master and His pet of our relationship status.
-as such, the pet would have no ability to EVER experience orgasm except from anal sex, or the occasional prostate milking. The pet can and is able to experience anally-caused orgasms, and is desirous to do/be so from and for its Master/Mistress. This being said, regardless of anything stated, the pet does need relief...so, a non-satisfying prostate massage is recommended weekly, or at the end of each visit, to keep the chaste sub/slave drained, in good health and knowing/reminded of where its only pressure relief is.
-Drinking...i do not need drugs or alcohol to have fun, but yes, i do drink here and there, and on occasion like a beer with friends. However, there is a desire to be kept, in some of the times that i serve my Mistress/Master, constantly and forcibly inebriated...being too out of sorts to object or resist what is being done or required. This is a big trust issue, as i still want my limits respected.
-pictures/videos of performance, either with just its Master/Mistress or with groups is desired...in order to reinforce the bond and position/subjugation the sub/slave has with its Mistress/Master, the videos/pics will be a reminder, at times, of what He/She has seen and enjoyed, how it is a toy for Her/Him to use, and also to further training for how it should improve performance when put into His/Her service. Also, any pics or videos sold to porn studios would be enjoyable and welcome, though the funds received from such would go to the sub/slave/pet, with a strict understanding of how it was garnered, what the pet/slave had to do to earn it, and how that basically makes the pet/slave a whore, who only receives money because it has performed well for the Master/Mistress.
-always allowed to be hygienic, and not have this interfered with, delayed or criticized. Cleanliness is a bonus and a compliment to the Mistress/Master, as a good pet always desires to please, and not disgust, disappoint or delay His/Her pleasure...that is a paramount desire of the slave.
-pet play...as stated before, to be as a prized pet...(except for times we are just enjoying each other's company), so, whenever in service, to be treated as, talked to and/or trained as a pet. To be trained as a dog is preferable, and highly welcome--don't forget the tail.
-pet play...interaction with and use by Master's/Mistress's dog...meaning, not only subservient to the Mistress/Master, but His/Her male dog as well. The Mistress/Master would be happy to see the sub/slave pet submit to and serve His/Her dog whenever He/She or the actual dog has the desire, and all along, He/She will shame and humiliate Her/His possession as it services His/Her non-human pet for what His/Her toy is happy to do for Their entertainment, voyeuristic pleasure and the pleasure of the actual animal the pet is made to satisfy. To be put in a kennel with many would be the ultimate goal of such a desire...To pick out the dog, (as a puppy) with the Master/Mistress would be desired as well, raising it from a puppy and training/fostering its understanding of what i am here for and what it would always have access to when Him/Her and i were in Your company.
-orgasms have a place...my Mistress/Master would hopefully want me to understand and connect to Him/Her, so...for a Master, any and all orgasms that He experiences, should go directly into His pet's mouth, to be ingested and metabolized--becoming a permanent part of His pet's being; for a Mistress, orally cleaning and cleansing her as she sees fit.
-Someone to talk with about desires that come up, and to be asked on a regular basis to express them. Not to be criticized or scorned for the desires, but to work them out and facilitate them into reality. Be it Yours or mine...there is no such thing as a "bucket list," but there are cravings of the mind and soul that cannot be denied.
-collar...i do not wear jewelry of any sort, but as stated before, would more than welcome a chastity device (one that can be removed for cleaning and hygiene, but be immediately replaced). That said, i would also be proud to wear a (quiet and simple) bracelet or anklet to show my honored place as the possession of a good Master/Mistress.
-tattoo...after acceptance and time, to symbolize, commit and know assuredly that She/He is my Master/Mistress, and that He/She knows that i am happy to serve Him/Her, a marking tattoo of Her/His property would be desired...this would be on my calf or above my kidney...a small and simple statement--agreed-upon--of His claim.
-brand--as said above...after acceptance and time to know assuredly that She/He is my Master/Mistress and that i am happy to serve Him/Her, the pet should be branded on its left buttock with the small and simple initials of its Mistress/Master. The pet, being a craftsman, would proudly fashion the brand and furnish it for the occasion.

Limits...
i know that a sub/slave/pet is very limited in demands and options, but being a consensual human, i have to state what i simply cannot tolerate or endure. i hope it does not disappoint...So...
A very serious and, experience driven, short list of limits...i really do not wish to disappoint, but i have a few, and they are solid...
-i do not rim...i will not lick or be forced to lick anyone's ass. If someone wants to eat me out, fine, but i do not reciprocate.
-condoms...Although the first part does not pertain to a Mistress, the second part does...My Master does not need to wear one (if He is clean), though i would like a true, medical test assessment before i commit to Him without a condom...any He/She puts over me however, be it one or many, they must wear a condom, regardless.
-no overt pain, lasting marks or abuse. i have a son and a life, and cannot afford to lose anything due to misuse, scarification or inability.
-no public exposure of what i/You/we are, or are into, unless it is an agreed-upon venue where it is acceptable and fostered.
-no face slapping, punching, kicking or other abuse.
-no toilet or nasty play...i.e, arm-pits, water-sports, feces or otherwise.
-no blood or injury...this is about compassion, communion and consensual adult activities, not cruelty...
-no body modifications...other than what was mentioned in the desires, no body modifications at all.
-no fat, ugly, nasty or diseased...while realizing that i am a sub/slave/pet, and that i am to serve those my Master/Mistress puts over me, there will be no fat, ugly, nasty or diseased people put over me by Her/Him...though eager to serve and prove itself to its Master/Mistress, the Mistress/Master will appreciate and treasure what He/She has and ensure that it is used well by only Worthwhile and acceptable companions--agreed-upon companions would be ideal when We/we search for others together, and a signal for those i accept or decline would be best in public venues or when restrained.
-sexual and pet-slave...though willing to serve and pleasure while in service, still, am not a table, footstool or p.o.s.. Want to be used and humbled/humiliated--not treated as furniture...have a poker game, and i would be happy to serve and "serve" under the table--but do not want to be a footstool or table for amusement.
-i live simply and naturally...just been my son and i since he was nine-months old, and he is now eleven...i do not want that to change as far as it comes to changing his life. i am willing and able to commit to a relationship as a sub/pet/slave, but until he is grown and able to be on his own, we are all we have ever had. i smoked pot until a year ago, but gave it up--though i really want to revive the happiness, and we eat naturally and simply, living as non-intrusively as we can...please respect that.

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8/21/2013 7:42:23 AM

If i were to eventually sign a contract with a good Dom/Domme, this is what i would be happy to adhere to:

 

Voluntary Servitude Contract
1) Introduction: I, ________________________ , hereby certify all information I give herein is true and actual: I am at least 18 years old, being of sound mind, and am not now physically or mentally impaired by influence of any drugs or alcohol, or any other reason where I do not know what I am doing. After fully reviewing, understanding, and carefully considering all the contents and implications of this document, I do willfully and voluntarily enter into this Contract in my own name. I am signing this document of my own free will, without coercion or pressure of any kind. No one has made any promises, guarantees, warranties, or offered threats or inducements of any kind to get me to sign this Contract.
2) This being a Binding Agreement, With my full understanding of the meanings and implications of this Contract, I specifically desire and request the control delineated and the activities mentioned herein. I especially desire and request MASTER to force me to comply if necessary, using any (non-abusive) means at His disposal, as He sees fit, without limit, unless otherwise specified herein. I hereby agree to submit myself totally and completely, without limits other than those listed herein, into servitude to the holder(s) of this Contract, hereinafter known as Master*. {*The singular form of the word 'Master' is used throughout this Contract, though this word applies to one or more persons as delineated above or below.}
3) Term: The term of this Contract shall be for a period of no less than one-half (1/2) year, commencing on the date of signing. MASTER may terminate this agreement at any time. If the contract is terminated within ninety (90) days of signing, I agree to pay all travel fees and/or expenses incurred for my Offered Contractual Service. In the absence of termination, this agreement shall continue to be renewed (upon agreement of both parties) from year-to-year on the anniversary date for a period of no less than three (3) years; after which the terms of the Contract may be re-negotiated to 1,2,3,5, or 10 years.
4) Offered Contractual Service: I understand that the Sixteenth Amendment prohibits slavery and involuntary servitude. Nevertheless, for my own purposes, I voluntarily desire to become like an Indentured Servant*, hereinafter desiring to be known as a "submissive or slave," to MASTER. {*An Indentured Servant, is an indebted laborer/performer - a laborer/performer under Contract to work/perform for an employer/overseer for a specific amount of time. The employer/overseer is not required to pay any monetary compensation, but is responsible for accommodation, food, other living essentials required, as well as training while recieving said performance/service. Upon completion of the term of the Contract, the laborer/performer may, or may not, receive some payment, as determined by the employer/overseer, based upon the laborer's/performer's performance.} I am signing this Contract to effect the status of Indentured Servant. I specifically request the courts, the law and government not to interfere. I consider any attempt by an outside authority to in any way limit Master’S rights and prerogatives under this Contract to be unwanted and unwarranted interference with my constitutional right to privacy. I am of legal age and I am legally an adult who knows what he is doing. I specifically want this. In the strongest language, I request the government not to "protect" me from the consequences of this decision. I specifically waive any and all protection in law or equity, any constitutional rights or protections, and any other rule or regulation that would in any way prevent Master from having total control over every aspect of my life while I am in His presence, except those specifically outlined in this document. Recognizing that a government may not allow a totally irrevocable Contract, no matter how much I want one, I agree to the following clause, which, while not making this Contract completely unbreakable, makes it extremely difficult to break: This Contract is irrevocable except as provided for in this paragraph only: - First, it can be cancelled at any time, without penalty, by *mutual* consent. If MASTER does not give consent, MASTER has the right to force compensation in an assembled court of impartial peers that we both agree upon. - Second, it may be unilaterally cancelled by MASTER at any time, with or without reason. -Third, it may be unilaterally cancelled by Indentured Servant ONLY in the instance that its limits are violated by Master or any He has put over the Servant.
5) Areas of Control: MASTER has total and complete control in every area. Except for the limitations below in the medical condition, drug, tobacco, alcohol and sex sections, if any. I agree to obey MASTER completely, willingly, to the best of my ability, at all times and in every way. I hereby totally submit to MASTER without limit (except those listed), without hesitation or complaint and without reservation. I specifically request and authorize MASTER to use (non-abusive) force, coersion and "blackmail" to compel my obedience.
A) I agree to conform to the following behavioral specifications unless and until given permission, freedom and/or leeway by Master to engage in such activities as I need or see fit: - I will not sit, lie on or use the furniture without the expressed permission of MASTER. - I will not go to the bathroom without permission from MASTER. - I will keep myself scrupulously clean at all times. - I will not get into or out of bed without MASTER’s permission. - I will not eat or drink without the permission of MASTER. - I shall never embarrass Master in any way. - I will not engage in malicious gossip or use insulting or demeaning language towards my Master or others. - My manner and tone will be that of a slave at all times and will reflect deference to MASTER at all times. - I will not act defensively when questioned by MASTER. - I will never interrupt MASTER, or others when speaking. - I will stay in shape by working out. - I will not engage in sex, masturbation, intimate touching, or engage in any scene without the expressed permission of MASTER. - I will always serve MASTER in a kneeling position or at least on the floor (as kneeling can be detrimental over long periods of time), eyes downward, and holding the position until released. - I will be honest, never deceive, nor withhold information from MASTER. - I will inform my Master promptly if I break any of Master’s rules, so that He may dismiss or correct/punish the behavior.
B) By way of illustrating Master's control, but not in any way to limit it, I delineate the following subset of MASTER's rights, privileges, prerogatives, and abilities:
i) Geographical: MASTER has the right to limit my movements: to decide where I live, work, play, etc, while in His home. MASTER has the exclusive right to dictate my whereabouts at all times when with Him. MASTER has the right to exercise this prerogative by physically confining or binding me by any means MASTER desires, with no limitations on time or method, unless it would interfere with my work, family or necessary life needs, functions or responsibilities. I understand that if restrained, the restraints are REAL and that I will NOT be able to get free until MASTER desires to release me, however long that takes during my time with Him each session.
ii) Dress: MASTER has the exclusive right to dictate every aspect of my dress: to decide what, if anything, I am to wear, when, and for how long while with Him. MASTER agrees not to subject me to arrest for indecent exposure, but MASTER's judgment will govern in all circumstances, except when in public. MASTER has the right to inspect me at any time, and in any situation that He sees fit, as long as it does not violate the law or lead to public notice.
iii) Grooming and Hygiene: MASTER has the right to dictate every aspect of my grooming and hygiene, however, must accept my choice of facial hair and hairstyle to maintain a conducive public life.
iv) Hair: MASTER alone determines what amount of body hair I have.
v) Bathing and Washing: MASTER has the exclusive right to dictate my washing, whether by HE HIMSELF, or any designee, both me and my clothing. MASTER may dictate the timing, place, method, and length of my cleansing. vi) Tattoo and Branding: MASTER has the exclusive right to dictate one small "ownership" tattoo and one "ownership" brand--tattoo on my ankle or on my back above my left hip, and brand of His initial on my left or right buttock. MASTER agrees to have tattoos placed by professionals trained in the specific areas concerned, and any brand will be made by me for His one time use.
vii) Eating and Sleeping: MASTER will provide me with sufficient periods to eat, sleep and drink and to keep me in reasonable health. However, MASTER has the exclusive right to dictate the place, time, manner and conditions of my eating, sleeping and drinking. In addition, MASTER has the right to dictate what I eat or drink.
viii) Health and Fitness: I agree at MASTER's direction to submit to every form of examination by health care professionals, fitness experts, or others as MASTER deems desirable or the venue allows.
6) Limitations: The following are binding limitations on the otherwise unconditional nature of my service and MASTER's control over me. Except for the limits in this section, there are none, unless I beg for understanding of my inability/aversion, and we agree to amend this contract accordingly. MASTER is in complete control and I hereby authorize and request MASTER to treat me as if I were His own body and to do anything painful or helpful that he would/could legally do to himself.
1A)There will be at no time any choking by hand to the point of unconsciousness, or scat play. I will not be required to do nasty activities such as rimming, smelling of pits or drinking of bodily fluids. I will not be subjected to testicular torture other than by tens units, nor will urethral sounds be utilized. I will not be abused or overtly hurt. Any and all people who participate in sexual activities with me, including my Master, will wear a condom.
a) Medical Condition Limitation: If I develop a medical condition, such as injury, allergy or diabetes, that dictates inclusion or exclusion of certain foods and drink, activities, specific exercise regimens, scheduled medications, etc., MASTER agrees to abide by the limits of diet, exercise, etc., as required to live with the condition.
b) Drug Limitation: I agree, under the strictest of penalties, not to use drugs in any form whatsoever except for:
a) over-the-counter medications, those that are physician administered, or cannabis.
b) performance-enhancing or state-altering drugs ordered by MASTER, and
c) medicines prescribed by a doctor. MASTER agrees to allow me to take prescribed medications on schedule.
d) Tobacco Limitation: MASTER will not force me to use tobacco. MASTER does, however, have the right to bring me into establishments that allow smoking, order me to serve Him, or His friends tobacco products in His home, regardless of my preference regarding personal use; however, since I do smoke, I will be allowed to do so at regular intervals.
e) Alcohol Limitation: MASTER may require me to use alcohol, but not allow my consumption to an extent that my health or safety is endangered. He may bring me into establishments that allow drinking or order me to serve Him, or His friends drinks at His home. On occasion, MASTER may allow me to consume alcohol in moderation. If I am to use alcohol, it will be only under MASTER's direction as to time, place, extent, type and method.
f) Sex Limitation: This is NOT a Contract for sexual services. I shall NOT receive anything of value for engaging in sex. I do however, understand that I will engage in sex at MASTER's desire and direction. I agree to do so fully, completely, willingly, and to the best of my ability. MASTER will tell me where, when, with whom, and what sexual activities to undertake. MASTER may also forbid me to engage in sexual activities with any one. Such activities may include fetish, sado-masochistic, multi-person, homosexual, bestiality and other activities considered by some to be deviant. Except at MASTER's direction, I agree to refrain from all sexual activity of every kind and description, including self-gratification.
7) Work: MASTER may order me to perform "sexual performance" duties on His behalf and may hire out my "labor" without compensation of any kind to me, unless it comes from internet display(s) of my performance. I agree to serve diligently, completely, and to the very best of my ability at all times. All money received for any of my work shall be the property of me. Unless employed by a company owned by MASTER, no employer/employee relationship exists between me and MASTER. MASTER is not responsible for worker's compensation, social security (FICA/DHSS) or other insurance's or taxes. I serve under this Contract for the compensation already received which is not, and is not to be construed as wages. That I am not an employee can be demonstrated by the IRS test that I cannot quit this Contract. MASTER agrees to use necessary funds from my work to pay any personal bills or obligations I may incur while indebted to MASTER, but not debts incurred prior to signing this Contract. I understand that MASTER may, or may not, choose to set aside a percentage of any income I generate, and place it into a Trust Fund on my behalf, which he agrees to release to me upon termination or completion of my Contract to him.
8) Penalties: MASTER may enforce His orders by physical, or corporal punishment of various types. I understand that, as one method of discipline, I will be (non-violently, neither cruelly or abusively) spanked (paddled, etc.) with hands or implements. I understand the spankings and punishments are REAL. They WILL hurt, MAY leave marks on my body, and MAY bruise to a point, but will never be severe enough to interrupt or a and responsibilities either with Master or outside of His control. MASTER may enforce His orders by physical force: in short, by MAKING me to do what He wants done. MASTER may apply corporal punishment and/or force, either for a lapse in my behavior, for a completely arbitrary reason, or solely for His enjoyment, amusement, and gratification.
9) Hold Harmless: I submit to this Contract and to the treatment hereunder, entirely of my own free will, volition, and for my own reasons. I enter into this Contract solely and entirely at my own risk. I, for myself, my heirs, my assigns, and all other parties of any description, hereby agree to hold harmless, and release from all liability of any kind, MASTER and all other participants in these activities, so long as all agreements signed to are upheld and enforced by all parties.
10) Assignment of Property: By signing this Contract, I understand and agree that ownership of all commercial rights to myself, tangible, and intangible, and all copyrights, patents, etc. which I may become entitled to, or obtain by any means during the course of this Contract to MASTER, become the legal property of both MASTER and myself. MASTER agrees, with my consent, to use such properties, copyrights, patents, etc. to pay off any obligations or bills I may incur after entering into this Contract, and to use a portion of the remainder for expenses associated with my upkeep, such as food, medication, clothing, etc. The remainder will be given to me for my use and livelihood.
11) Model Release I hereby execute an unconditional, unlimited, irrevocable, assignable Model Release in favor of MASTER and myself; covering all pictures, films, video, audio, public performance, and recordings of me of any kind, whether true to life or manipulated in any fashion, and all associated material, including promotional, either factual or fictional, used for any purposes whatsoever, including commercial.
12) Other: MASTER agrees to care for the slave, to arrange for the safety and well-being of the slave, as long as the MASTER owns the slave. The MASTER also accepts the commitment, to train the slave, punish the slave, care for the slave, and use the slave as he sees fit within the limitations and policies stated within this contract. The slave agrees to accept any non-abusive punishment the Master decides, whether earned or not. Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm. Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or include any of the the following forms of abuse: - Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment will stop if blood is drawn - Causing internal bleeding - Drastic loss of circulation - Loss of consciousness - Burning - Scat - Any damage that involves loss of permanent mobility or function, including broken bones - Any permanent marks on the skin, scars, burns, unless accepted by the slave - any deep or lasting/painful bruising. However, Any agreed-upon "claiming"tattoo and/or brand that stays permanently is negotiable. The slave may not seek any other MASTER, MISTRESS or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the MASTER's permission or direction. To do so will result in punishment. The slave may not speak to anyone unless spoken to or told to by MASTER, or has been given previous authorization. Slave may not have sex in any way shape or form with himself unless so directed or permitted by MASTER. The slave agrees to only wear in Master's company what MASTER allows slave to wear, and not remove anything under any circumstances unless permission is granted. Slave agrees to speak only in the manner MASTER desires and at all times when in His presence. Slave will conform to that manner that is expected. Any alteration from that form in any degree will automatically be grounds for punishment.
13) Exceptions: The slave may respectfully contest or question any command, where said command: - Conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave - May cause extreme damage to slave’s life or body - May cause permanent bodily harm to the slave - is in violation of this contract and the agreements therein.
14) Inclusions: As with all sections in this Contract, agreement to duties and instructions are mandatory whether or not implied or inferred. Examples of some specifics are included herein, but are not in any way solely limited to them. Those that are included, are listed to help the slave gain and show a better understanding of the scope and breadth of the Contract being agreed to.
Examples: You are agreeing that: - You may be exhibited naked - You may be exhibited in restraints - You may be exhibited in acceptable public venues - You may be trained humiliated, restrained, disciplined, etc in private and in acceptable public venues- You may be locked into a chastity device (removeable on the honor system when away from Master for hygiene and/or safety/societal norms (doctor visits, travel, etc.)- You may have to grovel and beg in private settings, but not in public - You may have to eat out of a dog dish - You may have to eat table scraps that have been thrown on the floor - You may be restrained for periods of time and for no more than Master's viewing pleasure - You may be caged or heavily restrained for hours - You may be restrained with chains, ropes, shackles, thongs and tape - You may be blindfolded, hooded, muzzled or gagged - You may have dildos or plugs secured in you for an unspecified duration - Your sex may be stretched, clamped or secured - You may be taken while restrained: mouth and asshole - You may be locked into and requireed sleep in a cage - You may be suspended by wrists, body and/or ankles and used, though never suspended or positioned upside down- You may be tied in a chair or frame - You may be left unattended chained to a ring in the floor - You may be disciplined for your own good - You may be disciplined to amuse your MASTER and his friends - You may be severely disciplined for infractions - You may be clothes-pinned - Your ass, back, legs, chest and stomach may be spanked, paddled and whipped - You may be coated in hot wax or other substances - Your body and/or nipples may be tortured - You may be given enemas - Weights may be hung from your penis, testicles and/or nipples - Aspects of your training/service may be photographed and video taped for publication. I will also adhere to the list of rules specifically meant for me which accompanies this Contract, and any other rules that MASTER sees fit to establish from this point on (that we agree upon), that are not a violation of my aforementioned limits.
14a)Desires: While understanding of the "Indentured Servitude," Submission and Slave status I am entering into, Master must recognize and be willing to entertain/facilitate and make possible my desires...These consist of activities and modes of serving that only make me want to serve that much more and with all my ability. Master agrees to impliment as many as, if not all of the desires this "slave" has hereafter listed, so that complete acceptance and ownership is understood and made understood as beneficial to both parties--they are as follows:
--In the time/times that i am in service, these are my desires..
NOT a demand list or RULES of the road, they are merely the desires that i have for being with an ideal Master...my fantasies...and though they are wordy, i want to be totally honest and completely open with You, as You are hopefully understanding and intelligent...
As simply and concisely stated as i am able to convey, these are the desires:
-to be kept in constant chastity, with no means of ever having a genitally caused orgasm--though i can and do cum from anal sex, and that should be His goal--and periodic prostate milking would be the norm.
-to Not be abused or mistreated in any way...we are human and have responsibilities , and these are not negotiable or insignificant parts, they are the whole. Loss of work or family/family-time is not acceptable, though understanding and support in my endeavors is a serious aphrodisiac.
-to be treated as a treasured pet, ultimately and desirously inclusive of a leash, a collar and being trained to the (sometimes) humiliating commands/demands and desires of its Master.
-to be restrained...when not in oral service or in public (unless the public is in a like-minded event/venue), gagged (ring or ball gag preferable)...when not in anal service, plugged (even when out together)...and when not in service at all, restrained to be/act and always reminded that i am nothing more than a pet, only able to move as a pet would.
-as pertains to the above desire, always treated as an equal in public and around my son/family/friends; though when alone or in venues of like-minded people/events, such as gatherings or establishments that we visit catering to gay or lifestylists, i will know, be/be reminded of, my place, and proudly kept there.
-to be of service and always be reminded of my place...punishment as needed or desired (by either party), but not sadistically or abusively. When however, sadism and/or punishment is desired/required, understanding of reality and the afore-mentioned treasuring of a prized pet and its worth, and the human condition when it comes to being able to work and live/raise my son functionally.
-to be safely used by groups...made to service multiple people in satisfying ways, and used well in front of my Master so that He may see not only my delight and appreciation for the ability to serve Him and be used as it should, but also my desire and wish to serve His fantasies and voyeuristic/Masterful tendencies as i should...making Him proud that He has a willing and obedient sexual being under Their control, that will strive in earnest to please Him in what He possesses. To be taken to events/venues and places where the Master can sit back and watch Their toy being used by multiple people...constantly entertained and happy to remind the toy (sometimes in the most humiliating ways and terms), of what the pet/slave is and how it makes Him happy to witness it performing under His control, as His toy, His slut and His shareable possession. Double penetration, anally, would be welcome, and though never experienced, has always been, humiliatingly desired.
-as an addition to the above...to be made to know and appreciate my position and possession as a pet/toy, and a bit of solace to my Master...understanding that when i am spending time with Him, that i am there ONLY for His enjoyment, pleasure and demand, as well as those He allows to use me...and thus, when the Master honors me with groups, as He will ensure my good use, hopefully pleased by my enthusiastic willingness to serve and perform for Him, guaranteeing my safety and security. However, reminders during such service, (and in crude/nasty terms, hopefully), of my place, of He who owns what is being used, and what i am there for is highly recommended. In addition, condoms will ALWAYS be a requirement He will enforce when others are allowed to be with me...and the Master will ALWAYS be present when He allows others to be present, at not time leaving me alone to be abused or hurt in any way.
-group use at the very least, once a month, if possible.
-as an addition to what was stated before, in regards to NO genitally inspired orgasms...teasing, playing with and humiliation of my genitals is welcome, but not pleasure to the point of ejaculation. A chastity device would be desired and greatly appreciated (can substitute as a collar, especially if attached to a leash), and would ensure the slave/pet status to both it and its Master...this can and hopefully would entail (excuse the play on words), a tail, worn in place of a plug, to continually remind my Master and His pet of our relationship status.
-as such, the pet would have no ability to EVER experience orgasm except from anal sex, or the occasional prostate milking. The pet can and is able to experience anally-caused orgasms, and is desirous to do/be so from and for its Master. This being said, regardless of anything stated, the pet does need relief...so, a non-satisfying prostate massage is recommended weekly, or at the end of each visit, to keep the chaste sub/slave drained, in good health and knowing/reminded of where its only pressure relief is.
-Drinking...i do not need drugs or alcohol to have fun, but yes, i do drink here and there, and on occasion like a beer or joint with friends. However, there is a desire to be kept, in some of the times that i serve my Master, constantly and forcibly inebriated...being too out of sorts to object or resist what is being done or required. This is a big trust issue, as i still want my limits respected.
-pictures/videos of performance, either with just its Master or with groups is desired...in order to reinforce the bond and position/subjugation the sub/slave has with its Master, the videos/pics will be a reminder, at times, of what He has seen and enjoyed, how it is a toy for Him to use, and also to further training for how it should improve performance when put into His service. Also, any pics or videos sold to porn studios would be enjoyable and welcome, though the funds received from such would go to the sub/slave/pet, with a strict understanding of how it was garnered, what the pet/slave had to do to earn it, and how that basically makes the pet/slave a whore, who only receives money because it has performed well for the Master.
-always allowed to be hygienic, and not have this interfered with, delayed or criticized. Cleanliness is a bonus and a compliment to the Master, as a good pet always desires to please, and not disgust, disappoint or delay His pleasure...that is a paramount desire of the slave.
-pet play...as stated before, to be as a prized pet...(except for times we are just enjoying each other's company), so, whenever in service, to be treated as, talked to and/or trained as a pet. To be trained as a dog is preferable, and highly welcome--don't forget the tail.
-pet play...interaction with and use by Master's dog...meaning, not only subservient to the Master, but His male dog as well. The Master would be happy to see the sub/slave pet submit to and serve His dog whenever He or the actual dog has the desire, and all along, He will shame and humiliate His possession as it services His non-human pet for what His toy is happy to do for Their entertainment, voyeuristic pleasure and the pleasure of the actual animal the slave/pet is made to satisfy. To be put in a kennel with many would be the ultimate goal of such a desire...To pick out the dog, (as a puppy) with the Master would be desired as well, raising it from a puppy and training/fostering its understanding of what i am here for and what it would always have access to when Him and i were in Your company.
-orgasms have a place...my Master would hopefully want me to understand and connect to Him, so...for a Master, any and all orgasms that He experiences, should go directly onto His pet's face, to be worn with pride.
-Someone to talk with about desires that come up, and to be asked on a regular basis to express them. Not to be criticized or scorned for the desires, but to work them out and facilitate them into reality. Be it Yours or mine...there is no such thing as a "bucket list," but there are cravings of the mind and soul that cannot be denied.
-collar...i do not wear jewelry of any sort, but as stated before, would more than welcome a chastity device (one that can be removed for cleaning and hygiene, but be immediately replaced). That said, i would also be proud to wear a (quiet and simple) bracelet or anklet to show my honored place as the possession of a good Master.
-tattoo...after acceptance and time, to symbolize, commit and know assuredly that He is my Master, and that He knows that i am happy to serve Him, a marking tattoo of His property would be desired...this would be on my calf or above my kidney...a small and simple statement--agreed-upon--of His claim.
-brand--as said above...after acceptance and time to know assuredly that He is my Master and that i am happy to serve Him, the pet should be branded on its left buttock with the small and simple initials of its Master. The pet, being a craftsman, would proudly fashion the brand and furnish it for the occasion.

15) Closing: This agreement is covered by the laws of the United States of America and of Canada. This statement not withstanding, I specifically desire none, or at least the minimum amount of government interference in this Contract. If any part of this Contract is held to be invalid, the remainder stands as written and the invalid part is changed as slightly as possible to give MASTER as much latitude and as many rights and privileges as possible. In a similar fashion, in any disagreement of Interpretation, MASTER's desires shall prevail if He gives substantial reason and means to show cause for modification/reinterpretation of what is written herein. MASTER may NOT assign this Contract to any other person or persons without my signed consent, but may allow others, in His presence, to be considered a "Master" for the time they may be involved in our activities, as long as they act responsibly and according to this contract.
16) Slave’s Agreement: I agree to become an Indentured Servant to MASTER. I understand that I will be commanded, trained and punished as MASTER sees fit, though with understanding and a common pursuit of His and my desires as able. I promise to be truthful, honest, and forthcoming, conduct no illegal activity--aside from cannabis use, and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my MASTER to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this Contract except as stated in this Contract. I have read and fully understand this Contract in its entirety. I have no questions, changes or omissions. There are no other provisions. Full Legal Name: ______________________
Signature: ___________________________
Date:_______________
17) MASTER's Agreement I have read and fully understand this Contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possession, and to care for him to the best of my ability, with full understanding and a common pursuit of his and my desires as able. I shall provide for his security and well being and command him, train him, and punish him as a slave, though acknowledging and respecting, facilitating his desires and limitations. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement. I further understand that I can withdraw this Contract at any time.
Full Legal Name: ______________________
Signature: ___________________________
Date: _________________________
18) Witness Full Legal Name: ______________________
Signature: ___________________________
Date: __________________
19) Witness Full Legal Name: ___________________________
Signature: __________________________
Date: ________________________


5/31/2013 12:44:19 PM

i wish more people would read and understand this...it really is simple, and very important to know...

 

This article has been copied and remade. There are portions that were removed, portions edited and several additions made. I feel there are too many articles out there that are nothing more than a joke and there are articles that are too complex for someone just learning. I wanted an article that was just basics but was informative and not too overwhelming.

I was a sub and I have been to subspace, it was over ten years ago, I used the knowledge that I have, talked with four switches and two subs and another dominant to get views from every angle. When I was finished with the article, I sent to several individuals and received feedback on a few before the posting of the article. The finished article is the work of approximately fifteen individals from all sides of the lifestyle.

I feel that everyone would profit something from the reading of this article, if you are submissive, dominant or anything between. As far as I am concerned, everyone has the right to use this article and distibute as desired.

Subspace:
Within the context of BDSM, subspace is an altered psychological state that is often entered into by the person bottoming in a scene. It is not easy to characterize, because each person's reactions to BDSM play can be quite different and even a single person's reaction to play can vary from scene to scene.

Most people associate BDSM with the physical aspects of the scene: the floggers, whips, rope, and the like. However, there are mental aspects to a scene as well, and those need to be considered during every scene. The fact that BDSM play and subspace is not just physical, can not be stressed too much, there is a deeper aspect to it all and the mental side of BDSM and subspace must be taken into consideration at all times whatever side that you find yourself.

Subspace, in one sense, is much like a hypnotic trance. A trance is any period of narrowly focused attention. If you have been sucked into a book or movie, such that the world disappeared for a time, you have been in a trance. During a BDSM scene, as you progressively focus more and more on the physical sensations of play, the entire world may disappear, leaving only you, the dominant, and whatever is being done to you.

At the same time, BDSM quite often involves impacts to the body. During a scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasue trigger a response of the sympathetic nervous system, which causes a release of epinephrine from the adrenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins.

These natural chemicals are a part of the body's primal fight or flight response. They produce the same effects as a morphine like drug. This dump of morphine like chemicals into one's bloodstream increases the pain tolerance of the submissive as the scene becomes more intense and also induces a euphoric, ecstatic floating feeling.

Subjectively, subspace is like getting drunk or getting high on drugs. You forget the pain, your problems, all your cares seem to drift away and be obliterated while you are in this state. Some submissives, upon reaching a height of subspace, may lose all sensations of pain, or become incoherent, making safewords useless.

The euphoria of subspace or some parts of it can last anywhere from hours to days after play. A few people can carry a positive glow from play that lasts them for weeks.

However, it is also a state of mind that impairs rational thought and decision making skills. It's a state that needs to be monitored carefully for the mental and physical safety and well being of all the parties involved. While it is important to take this into consideration during play, it is especially important to remember this as a scene is winding down and is stopped.

If a submissive goes far enough into subspace, they could injure themselves without knowing it, or continue to ask for play that could injure them without their knowledge. If the dominant whom they are playing with does not understand the dangers of subspace, it can be even more dangerous for the submissive.

The experience of subspace is a major reason that submissives play within the BDSM world. Aside from exploring desires they have kept hidden from themselves, and experiencing a form of sexually related play that operates on levels of explicit communication that they have probably never experienced before, learning to fly in subspace is a powerful and ecstaic experience. It is literally an incredibly powerful natural high.

When a submissive is in subspace, they usually don't want to come down from it, since it is a feeling of bliss that they don't want to lose. However, all play must end, and what goes up, must come down. It is very important to understand that learning to fly involved learning to land in a graceful way, which preserves the flying experience, because the alternative to a graceful landing is sometimes rather like a mental aiplane crash.

Drop:
Since the increase of hormones and chemicals has produced a trance like state, as play ends the submissive may feel out of body, detached from reality. As the submissive's system stops producing morphine like drugs, and as the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in again, the submissive may feel a deep exhaustion, a sharp drop in temperature, as well as incoherence and uncoordination. In the lifestyle, this is commonly referred to as drop or subdrop.

Drop is experienced by athletes and adventurers. Drop happens to dominants, though this is often less well recognized, for pretty much the same reasons as athletes and adventurers. It also happens to people after high stress situations. After an emergency like a car accident or break in, people often find that they go through days where they have a feeling of being adrift, rather than how thay are used to feeling.

Drop can also happen if play is stopped abruptly. BDSM play is a very vulnerable experience for people. It often involves exposing one's inner self in ways that one has never before done. Sometimes, inexperienced dominants will begin BDSM play, and then abruptly terminate a scene and walk away. This can leave the abandoned submissive in a very down state, feeling that they engaged their sense of trust to allow the dominant to play with them, and that the dominant simply let them splatter on the ground.

The majority of people recover from play in a matter of hours, but others could exhhibit signs of drop for weeks after a very intense session. The more extreme forms of drop could feel like you have a hangover or partied too hard the night before. Some people have felt lost and depressed for hours or days. You must keep a sharp eye out for the depression as it is very dangerous if you get too depressed during the drop period, it must be taken care of immediately. It is known that some have committed suicide over it. Some just want to sleep it off.

The BDSM community combats drop by teaching people how to land gently, and by being prepared to assist others whom they have played with to gently transition from flying to being on the ground. We call this aftercare. It is important to not only know that one might need it, but also to know that it is something may want and need to negotiate receiving after playing.

Aftercare:
Once you have hit subspace, then experiencing a drop, aftercare can be as important, if not more important than the play itself.

As a general rule, play in a public dungeon tends to be less intense than private play. This is especially true if the play is casual, established during the party rather than between existing partners. Even existing partners will often fail to push as many boundaries in public as they will in private. So people in the lifestyle who are playing privately probably have a greater need to establish rituals of aftercare that fit their exact needs.

In public dungeons, aftercare is usually oriented towards recognizing the immediate physical needs of submissives who have been playing. Because the submissive's body has been undergoing exertion, body temperature frequently drops sharply after play. This may require having a blanket or a robe for warmth as the submissive can sometimes become chilly to the point of shivering, even if fully clothed. The submissive may feel unsteady on their feet, sometimes barely able to move without assistance, necessitating a comfy place where they can sit or lie down and experience gentle contact and physical comfort for a period after play. Their cognitive functioning may be impaired, slow or disjointed for a while after play.

Food or drink after play can be important. Water or sports type drinks to rehydrate, or juice to provide simple sugars. Eating some chocolate after play is recommended by some, as the opiate and cannabinoid effects of chocolate also contain several stimulants that can make mental processes feel more alert.

It is important to know that it is unwise to engage in heavy play, especially as a submissive and drive too soon afterwards, as one might be far more under the influence due to subspace than if one were at the legal limit for alcohol.

Aftercare, at it's most basic, simply involves the willingness to continue being there with your play partner for a sufficent time period that they can feel safe, regain their emotional equilibrium, and no longer feel the need to cling to you. It is equally important to recognize that aftercare is for both the dominant and the submissive. If either person leaves too soon, then their partner may feel abandonment or loss far exceeding the obvious dimensions of the scene.

It is a good idea to have a network of kinky friends whom you can talk to if you find that you need to, one of the reasons that 's community is important, but not to be totally relied upon. As a dominant, it is often important to make sure the the submissive youplay with knows how to get in contact with you, so if they need later reassurance, it can be provided.

Continuing to help the transition, especially if going home alon after play, some people find that assembling aftercare supplies helps them continue to land gently after they arrive home. Relaxing music, comfort objects, scented candles, bubble baths, favorite books or movies, incense, and other forms of self pampering serve to continue to remind people that they are special and cared for, allowing them to bask in the gradually fading fires of their flight into subspace.


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