So a little about me, what to put here. For starters I will go through what I am looking for and what I am not looking for, though I will not go into extreme details here after all that is what creates topic for discussion when I meet someone.
Starting off what I'm looking for is an addition of sorts which I will now explain. I have a mate and we love each other greatly, though we both have a mutual agreement that there are some things we can not give the other, and thus my search. Now onto what I seek, this is complicated a bit but not extremely specific.
Appearances aren't terribly large on my list as long as you look as though your body's height and weight are proportionate then that department should be well taken care of. Older men I haven't a problem with, though if you are younger than me I tend to use that as a very strong judgement. Disabilities do not persuade me one way or the other as I have my own but I will get into that later.
Personality, now this is a bit more of a big one for me and I can be incredibly particular in this department. For starters truth must be spoken at all times, lies are one of the biggest turn offs for me, I give truth and that is what I expect in turn. Another thing that is very important is I have known and know a lot of people that hide behind the shroud of the internet, if this is you then don't bother with me as you will just end up wasting both of our times. I always portray myself and not someone else whether it is online or real world. Outgoing is nice however a total extroverted individual is not necessary as I myself can be quite introverted, most of the time though a more extroverted person brings me out when in public. You must be able to take a joke, this is also a big thing as I'm incredibly sarcastic and I like to make fun of just about everything.
Interests, now here is another big thing that could have its own encyclopedia length writing but I won't list everything here as that could take a while. My interests have a large variety and for starters I'll go with the clean vanilla likes. Music is a large like of mine and I don't mean that stuff that rhymes with crap, true music as in everything from classical, singers songwriters, stage, older country not the modern (up to about 2006), classic rock, and some of today's pop and rock as well. I also play a decent variety of instruments though particularly guitar, bass, and piano/keyboard.
Continuing on with likes I like going out to places when I can, whether it be for a bite to eat or even a simple walk in the park and I try to get out socially at least once a week. The mentioned above are some things about me and aren't required shared interests however these wouldn't hurt as bonus perks. For my vanilla likes this is all you get for now basically though as one last little tidbit of information I have a strong attraction to intellect so if you have a good head on your shoulders and enjoy actual conversation as opposed to mindless blabber then we'll get along great.
If you're still reading this then congratulations, I'm moderately intrigued that you have managed to pay attention this long and I hope you continue reading.
About me, well aside from what was read so far I will go into a few more details in this section. I have a few disabilities that I openly admit, anxiety disorder, chronic neck and back pain. Most days they don't keep me from doing things however some days they limit me. Drinking I don't do heavily but the occasional social drink is nice. Drugs I don't do any illegal drugs, however I do have medical marijuana. I hold a small part time job at a local business mostly to get out of the house and have a little running money. I enjoy artistic things and interesting conversations. I'm not a big health nut but I do appreciate the good things food wise. Dress wise I'm not big on keeping up with fashion statements, and being a leather pup I almost always wear some form of leather wherever I go even if it's something small though usually I can be seen wearing my vest and collar.
So you've survived this long, now you get a bit of a reward in the form of knowing some of my not so vanilla likes. For starters well lets face it, this is a site about BDSM right so what level of this whole BDSM thing am I on? Well I like most aspects of it, bondage wise I love everything from ropes, rope harnessing, and simple tying to the bed all the way up to heavy full immobilization with the right amount of trust. Leather is a huge love of mine, I'm a leather pup and that's something that I don't see ever changing with me. Masochism, I love pain this is true but there are limitations to this, don't stick me with any needles and don't cut me with any knives, they are not necessarily hard limits but they are two things I've never tried in my life and would be incredibly hesitant to try. Beating me with floggers, crops, canes, whips, yes I like everything from the light to heavier in some places though that's more for negotiations when/if I ever play with someone. Further likes and details I may get into once I get to know someone more but for now this is what you get.
Well congratulations you have reached the end of my profile, if it interests you great feel free to contact me, if it doesn't interest you thank you for reading this far anyways! Also on a closing note, I don't take fakes or flakes so if you are either one of those, don't waste my time. I tend to find these things out rather quickly when talking to people so take this as a sort of warning before you engage conversation.