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chainmaster2012

Those of you who are quick on the uptake may have noticed that, with the exception of this text bloc, this profile is almost completely empty. There is a reason for that. If you don't care enough to ask questions, to learn about another person on your own, then you don't have what it takes to serve. My time is valuable, and I simply don't have any to give away to those who want to play games, live in a world of make believe, or simply don't give a shit. I don't really believe in classifying relationships. Each is defined on it's own terms, by the people who have entered into it, and as such, I am interested in talking to any and all... whether fellow dominants of either gender, or those who identify themselves as submissive, or as slaves. Also, while I am only interested in women sexually, that doesn't mean that I won't speak to men who want to talk simply for the sake of friendly conversation, or mutual enlightenment. Do not hesitate to write even if your intent is only to talk; I enjoy social discourse, even when it does not lead to anything more substantial. I am, however, not interested in purely online playmates at this time. If you're out for a quick virtual fling without either deeper conversation or the possibility of moving into a real-time situation, I'm not for you. That doesn't mean that I won't occasionally indulge a friend that way, if they are in the mood and we have talked in other capacities, but it's not something I do on the fly. Do's And Don'ts This section is very important; if you send a C-Note without having read it, you are very likely to do something that gets you permanently ignored. I have an exceptionally low tolerance level for those who are rude, or presumptuous, and as I will be reading your profile before messaging you, I expect the same courtesy in return. My expectations are very simple. 1. DO be honest. This isn't intended just to include the basic precept of "don't lie", it is also meant to imply a certain level of openness and sincerity in our dealings with one another. 2. DON'T address me as "Master" without cause. This is a big one, and a problem that I have run into in other venues when interacting with submissives/slaves. Traditions vary, and while some dominant males expect to be referred to by that appellation as a matter of course, it is a word with sacred meaning, and I frown heavily on it's misuse. To address someone by the term Master is to acknowledge a deep connection based upon mutual trust, passion, and emotion. If we haven't established such a connection, don't use it. This does not mean that I want you to be completely informal; after all, certain courtesies SHOULD be observed, but a simple "sir", not even capitalized, is sufficient to show basic respect for a man one is not familiar with. 3. DO know what you want out of our connection, and express it. I am not a psychic. I don't pretend to be any great expert in human psychology. I am a plain spoken man, and will always be clear about what I want and expect from you, and it would make life infinitely easier (and our association more pleasurable) if you did the same. Just want to chat? Looking for a potential lover/relationship? Looking for a Dom/Master? Make what you want clear; you'll have a much better chance of getting it, and avoid a lot of confusion. 4. DON'T play head-games. I don't play head-games. I expect the same respect. 5. DO ask questions. If there is something you want to know, ask! I am exceptionally forthcoming, and believe that any relationship, whether friendly, romantic, or sexual, is based on knowing another person, and knowing them well. The entire reason that I kept this profile mostly blank was to encourage just that sort of behavior. I will certainly ask questions of you, should I write. In regards to questions asked, I do not expect you to answer all of the questions you may be asked; sharing of oneself is based upon an individual's comfort level. Should you choose to answer, however, remember rule 1. 6. DON'T come without a sense of self-worth. Too many women who identify themselves as submissive or slaves seem to have no sense of their own worth. If you are looking for someone to completely dehumanize you, and to cater to a self-image based on utter worthlessness, I am not someone who can or will indulge you. If, on the other hand, you are a self-confident woman who knows her own worth, who still has the courage and the passion to yield herself to a strong-willed, caring, lustful man... feel free to come explore. 7. DO make the words "Jeep" and "Doritos" the subject of your first message. If you are writing a C-Note, and it is the first one you have sent, make the subject "Jeep Doritos". This is completely random, and meant to indicate that you have actually read the profile far enough to get to this ridiculous set of instructions. If you don't, it will automatically be ignored. That's it... anything else you want to know, you'll have to discover on your own. After all, that's half the fun. EDIT: Fixed some typos that made things somewhat unclear... For example, a reference to rule 2 on the list, when I intended to reference rule 1.
5/27/2012 1:51:56 PM

Ugh... Net has been down for a long while now, finally back online. I am very excited; I have a first meeting with someone I met here next weekend. It won't be a play date; we have both agreed that taking things more slowly is for the best, but even having the opportunity to hang out socially and get to know one another better will be wonderful. Pity it's NEXT weekend, though... I am bored out of my mind this weekend, since my paychecks come by mail now, and I am broke until I get mine on Tuesday. Three day weekends with nothing to do are really, really unfortunate.

5/8/2012 8:25:04 PM

Ugh... Friends in crisis tonight; I don't know what it is, but it seems like a lot of my RL friends have just been having the worst time, and everyone needs me at once. I haven't had a chance to do anything at all tonight. Oh, well... it was time well spent, but still, can we try spacing out the chaos just a little?

 

5/8/2012 6:12:33 PM

I saw the best E-Card today. "I don't ask for much... All I want is for you to treat me like a princess, and fuck me like a whore". I love it.

5/8/2012 12:23:29 PM

For anyone trying to message me, and wondering why I am really slow to respond, I am having severe network connectivity issues. Blah.

5/8/2012 5:24:36 AM

Met a very interesting person last night... spent almost four hours talking to them; something I have not done with a woman in a very long time. It was a relaxing, pleasant experience, and I discovered that we had a lot in common. It's a little early to be thinking of anything beyond friendship, but it's still nice to know that there are compatible people around.

 

ricajhenjenrick
 
 Age: 30
 NEW YORK, New York