I have been a member of collar me a little while now and must admit that i am more than just a little disappointed. It took me quite a long time to pluck up the courage to join ad post a profile which i tried to make as honest and as  clear as possible. I have , or had no desire to mislead anyone by claiming knowledge or experience i never possessed.

The saddest thing for me though is my disappointment in other members who use the site.
I was expecting to make friends.

I honestly believed that i was joining a community of people who all shared the same interest and would be willing to help and guide someone new.

The first day i posted my profile i received 96 offers. By the time i had removed all he married men just looking for someone who would do the things their wives wouldn't,  and all those who started off by calling me slave, bitch, whore, slut, or even worse the C word that most men don't seem to realize women detest. Once i removed all those i had very few left.

Another thing i don't understand is the amount of women who are obviously prostitutes who write to me. I was looking for a Dom'me not a pimp.

So i have decided to look elsewhere. But i thought i would write these few words in the hope that the very few real people on here who are looking for something real might all get together and start reporting the scam artists prostitutes and obvious nutters and get their profiles remove. And who knows if that happened we might all have a chance.

Just a thought

PS People keep asking why i ticked so many boxes in the actively seeking bit. WHY NOT? "me" I'll talk  with anyone interesting.