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cerberus37

Looking for a real Mistress, who is dominant all time and looks for a real bdsm relationship. I'm quite young, but I'm experianced both with on-line and real life serving. Fakes/beginners: don't waste your time (and mine, of course). No financial, since that is against my beliefs. Altho I believe paying tributes to show the love for a Mistress is ok, but a Mistress who demands this is not for my style. I think if the Mistress achieves that the slave offers his money, that's a start of a true d/s relationship. I'm willing to TPE and 24/7, relocating and things like that, but only if I've found the perfect d/s relationship. I'll do anything to find that and since I'm looking for it since a couple of years, I have patience as well. I won't bow down to the first Mistress who orders something. However, I'm willing to spend energy and time to get to know my future partner. I have pics and webcam for verification, but I'll only show myself for someone I talked with before. I’m more into the mental discipline than the humiliation and pain part. Of course it can take many forms and the control can come in many ways but the important thing behind a D/s relationship for me is whether the slave obeys his Mistress’ orders out of his free will or forced to do it. If the slave can’t enjoy his Mistress’ pleasure (even if She causes pain) then it’s not really D/s. My goal is to achieve a kind of state and bond between the Dominant and slave where the Dominant really feels the power She has and the slave doesn’t even think about denying an order. The pleasure for both of them depends whether the slave is willing to take it seriously and the Mistress is all heartedly a dominant or it’s just a game they play and the Mistress still considers the slave as a living and feeling human.
The ultimate long term relationship for me is when the Mistress just uses her slave as a toy, an object and doesn’t care about what the slave wants. Of course the training and education of the slave is important, both mentally and physically, but a real slave only cares about the pleasuring of his Mistress at all times. I guess You can take that as I’m naturally submissive and dedicated .
I won't write down what I'd do to please my Mistress since noone will believe it. I'd like to ask the wannabe dominants to test me. See what I'm capable of. Talk and communicate. Even you, Mistress, can't know me if you don't try ;)
LillyBlue
 
 Age: 29
 Saint paul, Minnesota