Well .....Opinions are fluid and we all have them, as for poetry and the way we express ourselves I have always found that communication is a skill and not a talent.

 In my circle we feel that Submission is not necessarily use to exercise superior control without a state goal, and if that goal is the improvement of your Sub in ways that are outside just the physical how can we be faulted?.

I had a Sub for 8 years in Texas, during that time she learned a foreign language, how to dress to fit into any segment of society, the proper way to do her makeup, how to hold a conversation on any subject and many, many other growth experiences that never would have been achieved without the Dominant controls I placed on her. This is the Nurture part that is added to her nature part, the need to serve.