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Searching for the Master of my dreams...

i.e. strict but fair, controlling, loving & caring, affectionate & attentive, nurturing, guiding, supportive, tender, highly sexed, sensual, romantic, strong, wise, articulate, mature, father figure, faithful and committed.

my self-discipline is non-existent but have found from past experience, that discipline from a good Master makes me a much much better person, happier and more fulfilled.

i am struggle with my weight and fitness... all as a result of my non-existent self-discipline! LOL
... perhaps also in part because of the D/s element lacking in my life, thus i have no real purpose.. i am slave, to serve and please is my only true ambition. However, i am striving to change these things, they won't forever be issues.. and the firm hand of a Master would indeed speed up the process no doubt! *grins*

i like to describe myself as 'voluptuous' have green eyes and dark mid-length hair. Always being told i am good looking. i enjoy eating out, red wine and sexy nights in... my D/s preferences i will discuss with You later. i usually wear jeans *sigh*... though i am sure if i find that elusive Master, it won't be long until He has me in sexy little skirts and too high heels! *giggles*

i have tried to be as clear as possible as to what i need in a Master, so if You think thats You, please send me a message telling me why and to find out if i am what You seek.

i will only reply to those who are 40+, single/unattached, located in N.Ireland (unless You are willing to move) and who are serious about a long-term D/s relationship.

Willing to exchange pics and more... only with those who are genuine.

~drops gently to her knees, lowers her eyes and waits patiently~


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11/7/2010 10:30:51 AM

TO SIR OR NOT TO SIR

Generally, always addressing every Dominant as Sir or Ma'am, is considered a basic part of being courteous and respectful. But is it really? Some Doms, especially those who are not educated in any particular protocol style (the polite and courteous way of saying they haven't taken the time to learn), or who don t even know that other protocols exist (the courteous and polite way of saying dom wannabe's), will tell you they expect to be addressed that way all the time. They expect, and sometimes demand, every submissive to address them as such from the very onset of being introduced. Doesn't matter if they deserve it or not. Doesn't matter that they have no idea what it stands for: they still expect it.

Deserve it? Isn't a Dominant supposed to actually have to earn the right to be treated respectfully?

Author: Bob Harris ©
Excerpt from an article originally written for the section of Gloria Brame's website called "Perspectives Of A Male Submissive".

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BDSM, M/s, D/s, whatever you want to call it, is not just about sex. It's not about abuse, or pain, or degradation, or some weird and bizarre fetish.

Its about Trust and building a bond between people that is stronger than anything you have known.  It is the willingness to give yourself utterly to another human being, or taking the sacred responsibility for another's well-being.

What deeper love can two people share than a willingness to give oneself  to another, mind, body, and soul? What greater honour is there than to receive and be responsible for such a gift?


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jenangelseyes
 
 Age: 33
  Indiana