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"I set out to to be good but there were so many other options. I aim to misbehave" - major bonus points :) if you love and know the source of this quote :). I am fun, well grounded and drama free. Very direct and to the point. Sapiosexual, Nerdy and Intellectual but with an old school Brooklyn tough guy vibe. Can be a bit selfish at times but with good intentions :). At times don't listen very well either and should trust my instincts more and make better choices lol but so is life. LOL - I am anything if not self aware. I am looking for a real connection with great banter that is more worthy of Aaron Sorkin or maybe Jerry Seinfeld but definitely not Jerry Springer :) I want to find someone who loves to discover all the great things that the life has to offer. I want to be around other positive people. I am a writer by trade, so if don't like guys who are talkers and who love to communicate, then I am probably not the right fit for you. But not looking for pen pals either :). Want to make real connections. Looking for someone who is pretty happy with her life but wants to add a bit of regular excitement. I am looking for one woman who is my equal and gels well with me. She has to be intelligent, accomplished, sexy (and I love hourglasses regardless of how much time they show) and fun to be around. I want to meet someone who engages me. Someone who digs my vibe and laughs at my jokes. Someone who likes that I am a lot to handle. As far as fetish is concerned, I am pretty open minded, just not so much that my brain actually falls out. By nature - I am a type A and dominant - so I am by any means not a "make-belief lifestyle dom" but someone who is just a dominant by they way they are wired. I actually think that a lot of the so called Doms online are so insecure that they only way they can feel comfortable with women is to tie them up. I see BDSM as a fun role-playing game - that adds spice and fun to sexuality - and works well with how I am wired. I am more into forceful and energetic play with bratty girls, versus "rules" or "pomp or circumstance" that spell out BDSM to so many. In my opinion, the most important sexual organs are the ones between our ears and I plan to use them (yours and mine) for all they are worth lol.