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If you want to be mine be prepared to move heaven and earth to make it so.

I am all woman and a life style domme. I seek real time only. I am not seeking play sessions I am not sexually promiscuous and have no desire to take antibiotics the rest of my life. If you think slavery is turning your body over to anyone for anything then I do not want you. You will only get one chance to make a good first impression so I suggest you read this entirely. I will not give you a second chance. If you cannot complete this simple task then you get blocked from approaching again. If your still interested read on.

Just because I am quiet sometimes does not mean I have nothing to say or that I don't care to listen. I am not here to pass judgment on what others are doing on this site or how they are doing it, one never knows where someone has had to walk in life, so to each his own. I do have personal boundaries and I will not
compromise them for anyone. I would rather wait forever for the right man than settle for any ole' person.

I am unpredictable and spontaneous. I try to always be forgiving but believe that punishment is sometimes necessary to learn. I enjoy being unique, I don't need a label I am an original, born a Dominant Goddess and that is not going to change. I am professional, ambitious and determined. I have been wealthy and I have been homeless an I assure you money won't get me nor will it keep me, what I seek is priceless, however I love to be spoiled and pampered. I believe in TPE, female lead relationships, fairy tales, romance, passion, honesty and integrity. I am a sucker for compliments. I would rather look immature having fun than care what others think. I am really confident at times insecure. I am creative and imaginative and curious about everything. I lead my life with my heart and people are very important to me. I am sympathetic and supportive. I am opinionated and stubborn. I am loyal, sincere and caring. You can trust me with your secrets and your heart. I am strong, I am weak. I am not brave but I have courage.

I know exactly what I want and how I want it. I am only looking for TPE. with a 100% masculine straight submissive man who truly understands Goddess worship and seeks with his soul a female lead relationship. I am not looking to use and abuse or own you as property, I will own you from the floor up, inside and out, your a man and you will act like one, but I will mold and sculpt into the kind of man worthy of this Goddess. I understand that society warrants that you be dominant, simply said you can be alpha with the whole world but not with me. If you see me crying the first thing out of your mouth better be, who's ass am I going to kick. I do not want a mindless doormat. My mind is wide and vast and if you cannot stimulate my mind you will never come close to the rest of me.

Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, then you aren't. You will not meet me in person unless I feel that there is real potential and that takes time, I will communicate with you on the phone and IM, how long you ask, as long as I feel necessary. I am not picking out a new pair of shoes so if you do not have patience then move on right now. I lead 100% of the time. I am not going to talk about being Domme I am and it begins with hello.

I want total and complete surrender. I will own you but I will not collar you unless I am in love with you. If you do not understand that being collared is a sacred bonding then you are not the one. You will be my submissive slave and must know in your heart and soul that slavery is Freedom for you. I am erotic, sensual and I believe that making love is a state of mind and I prefer to stay in that state and can be hell on wheels when I am removed from it. You will have noticed I did not list my BDSM interest, that is because your strongest desire need be what I seek. however bondage, cbt an a cage will be a regular part of your life. I am not sadistic by nature but have no real concern for pain and suffering when you have earned yourself a punishment. If you contact me with a Pic of your cock you will be ignored. If you cannot send a message politely introducing yourself with a Photo of your face you will be ignored. If you message me I expect it to be because you desire to be considered . Do not send me a message telling me what you seek, if you do not seek what I seek then move on.

This is an overview, if I desire to give you more information then I will and you will get my my YM and email, If I desire further you will be given my Phone number.

Further information is located in my journal, I suggest you read it.

Until later make it a great day.
Carol

P.S. all woman, couples and anyone under 35 will be sent to bulk mail and will not be read.

8/20/2010 12:40:22 PM

I am not looking for married men clearly if you are married you cannot be owned as you are already owned by another. Now if you approach me and beg oh please Goddess Carol I need to serve you, Simply stated if are married and looking outside the marriage for anything then you are looking for a delightful play thing and I will treat you like a generous pocket book and I will have a whole new set of rules for you.

If you are not in this country, I am not interested. I prefer a man no younger than 45. I believe a man first comes into his own some time during his forties. If you are Bi or Bi curious I am not interested, you cannot appeal to the woman in me if you desire cock, period. If I own you I will not share you in any regard. If you categorize yourself as a slut then you probably are and I do not want you.

If the words bitch, slut, cunt, whore are part of your vocabulary when it comes to a woman do not even approach me.

I do not care how you where trained by another or how good you think you are, simply stated I will mold and sculpt you into the man/slave I want.
 
If you disagree with anything you have read in my profile or journal you are certainly entitle to your opinion but I have no need to hear it, nothing I have stated is open for debate so sending your opinion my way is a waste of your time and mine, you will be ignored.

Slavery is not about suffering it is about service. It is not about humiliation, it is about humility. It is not about pain, it is about being present. It is not about being used, it is about being of use. It is not about control, it is about letting go. It is not about what is done to you it is about what you do for another.
It is not about abuse, it is about acceptance not about proving anything, slavery is about being real. It is not about contempt, it is about respect. It is not about how you look, it is about how much you care. It is not about denying yourself, it is about being open and not about bondage, it is about freeing your spirit. IT is not about  punishment, it is about discipline. it is not about being unable to escape, it is about being committed. it is not about submission, it is about obedience. Slavery is not about fear, it is about trust. and not about sex, it is about love. It is not about pleasure, it is about true happiness.