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ShadeOfGray
Are there Dom's out there that are not sadistic? Is the possible? Is it an oxymoron? I am not sure. If you are a Dominant man who is not a sadist and are looking for a sexy partner -- not just playmate -- then PLEASE keep reading. Too many guys don't understand the fact I want to take it slow. The problem is I am looking for a dominant man but I am not looking for just sex. If you are willing to have a relationship that is more than sex and has some vanilla aspects -- like a movie or concert now and then or a nice meal, then please read on. If you are interested in me, please lead with the non sex but take command of the relationship early. I am a professional BBW woman looking to be dominanted by an unattached professional man as frequently as we can get together. I don't love pain but can tolerate some and don't want to get arrested, otherwise -- just about everything (a few exceptions) are on the table. Please use me.

I am looking for a man who is not afraid of my strengths but understands my real need is to be submissive without being demeaned. Relocation would be complicated but possible I enjoy traveling and would like to travel with someone who will make it fun and sexy.
Please note, this means that if all you are interested in is a TPE or slave, I am not your girl. If you only want Web sex, please keep going. I have had all of the solo sex I am interested in and am definately look for the real thing.
8/3/2014 8:34:36 AM
So what more do I need to say in my profile to make it clear that I don't not want to have contact with attached men.  Loveless or sexless marriages, sick wives who can't meet your needs are still attached.  Girlfriends that you are not sure you want to keep and are looking to see what you can find is still attached.  I spent 15 years in a sexless marriage; I get need.  But I don't want to have to worry about raising your partner's suspicions, arranging dates around your ability to create diversions, or being caught out in public by a friend of yours who knows your partner.  

Please read my profile and my journal, you will find that I can not be satisfied in a relationship if you are attached.  That doesn't mean I am looking to lock you up, just be free of feeling like a heel or being branded a cheater.  

 
8/2/2014 2:48:01 PM
So I have landed again in a job I love and a location that I adore. -- The beautiful Smoky Mountains of Tennessee.  I spent 6 month living on the road seeing the US and then 6 months living with an aunt because everything I owned was in storage.  I have been here about 5 months and am now ready to find some friends.  And find some fun.  
4/4/2012 5:14:30 PM

well the only thing permanent in this life is change.  I have moved to Loveland.  My family has moved on with their life and I am alone.  For the first time in many years.  Accountable only to me and only for me.  Do I still have time to have the fun and the fulfillment I have been missing.  Please contact me if you are interested.  Be real, be unattached and be willing to tell me when you are no longer interested.  I am getting tired of guys saying oh yea lets get together and then dropping off the face of the earth. 

6/20/2010 3:23:45 PM
Okay, well.  I finally just gave up.  Adult children and grandchildren living with me and my remote location made it just too difficult.  And then someone moved my cheese.  My employer decided that someone else could do a better job.  I have been unemployed for 3 months.  But things are looking up.  I have a new job in the mountains of Colorado -- Right on Interstate 70 and near the world that everyone wants to be in. 

I hope will enjoy it as much as I did Nebraska but if I don't perhaps the trade off will be that I am closer to the action and therefore there are opportunities for me to enjoy the sexual side of me before I complete dry up and whither away!  Bring it on Colorado!
8/27/2008 8:42:32 PM
I love where I live and what I do, but I hate being so far away!  There are so many things I want to do in this lifestyle but how do I find someone safe, compatible, and enjoyable who shares my interest, given my remote location.  Do I give up the 80% of my life I am satisfied with to pursue the 20% I am not?  What if the 80% is more like 90%?  The musings of a sexual woman.
5/3/2008 11:53:26 AM
Now that I have dabbled in this world for awhile, I have figured a few things about what I am looking for.  Instead of changing my profile, I decided to put it here instead.

I recognize how far away I am from everything and that I am not looking for a 24/7 lifestyle or TPE.  I am looking for a dom who is comfortable in the vanilla world and who has the interest and means to travel periodically and enjoy the company of a strong but sexually enthusiatic sub for the trip.  I have means to travel but don't like to travel alone and want to have spice on my trips. 

If some of the trips were to meet half way between us, that is fine -- but lets make it some place fun.
moongoddess21
 
 Age: 45
  New York