~sighing~ why is it that when You go into the chatrooms, every "wannabe" Dom jumps at You with requests to private chat and then has the audacity to ask me what i am wearing. okay, i am not an expert in this lifestyle as of yet, but i have been learing for over ten years . and i have been in the company of some Doms enough to know that a true Dom is not going to jump on You and the first thing They ask is what you are wearing. i don't understand why there are people who invade these rooms and pretend to be S/someone they are not. which leaves the P/people who are true to the lifestyle frustrated because W/we have to weed through so many people to find someone who is being true and honest. there are so many other types of rooms for random cybering where one can roleplay. why can't they just go to those sites and leave U/us be so that we can spend the time with P/people who are being true and honest about who they are. for some of U/us who come here to meet P/people of the same interest because this is all W/we have, the only link to something we yearn for, it can be very very tiresome. so to the fakers, the posers, the wannabes, please, please (and i am asking nicely) don't try to mindfuck those of U/us who are here and are true to the lifestyle. go to chatropolis where there are many rooms where you can play out your fantasies. (now i'm not being so nice) to the stupid jackass who jumped on me, calling me His slut, His bitch in chat, demanding i tell him what i am wearing, don't do it again. i will not hesitate to post your user name so that E/everyone else knows to avoid you.