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I am 20 years old (turning 21 in just a few weeks) and in my third year of college. My major is Mass Comm. with a concentration in Journalism and I am minoring in English. I'm an internet addict (although I do have responsibilities and activities that take place offline) and keep very odd hours - I'm usually up until early in the morning.

Please don't immediately ask me for nude photos - I do have [non-nude] pictures I can share and will do so just as soon as I feel comfortable, I promise. I won't give out my phone number and am not comfortable calling someone I don't know. This sounds like an awfully restrictive post, but I just want to make my limits very clear from the start.

I listed myself as a submissive female because I believe a Dom/sub relationship is one that I would find very fulfilling. I have not had this kind of relationship in real time, however, so I don't profess to be an expert or experienced. With that thought in mind, I'm looking for someone who would like to exchange emails and possibly IMs. "Naughty" correspondence as well as normal conversation would be perfect, and I'm honestly not looking for anything too complex at the moment.

A fun, casual email/IM pal is the kind of relationship I'm seeking at the moment. If you think this is something you might be interested in, please feel free to contact me.

Note1: Yes, I'm asking for someone who would like to talk through email or IM only. As I stated above, these emails can be normal, friendly emails or more erotic ... either is fine, I'll enjoy making friends either way.

If you think that corresponding through email is 'ridiculous', please don't feel obliged to send me a message stating so. I'm not asking for a serious relationship, merely a chance to speak with new people and share some fantasies.

Note2: As you can tell from my profile, I'm a big lady. If this is not a turn on for you I would ask that you not contact me ... I don't need to know how much you dislike big women ;-)

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9/5/2008 9:15:22 PM
Ah, the internet. It's been awhile since I've been active on an adult social site (or however you would like to classify them) - the unprovoked hostility some people feel fit to express is something I'd forgotten.


I don't want to add even more notes to my profile, but I would like to say this nonetheless: I am not seeking your approval for my appearance, age, education or current desires. This sounds harsh, so unlike something a submissive should utter - I should be actively seeking approval, yes? I should be seeking to please.
                                                                                          

The truth is simple: I'm 20 years old. I've grown up with the word "feminism" ringing in my ears - I've learned to be resourceful and independent. I'm trying very hard to figure out who I am, what my desires might be, what I enjoy and what I don't, and I've done a fair job of establishing a healthy sense of self.
                                                                                                                                                                       
I believe I should be able to take care of myself, and yet I very much admire lifestyle submissives. I like the idea of devoting myself to a man, to pleasing him and learning every nuance of his nature. I feel the conflict of my differing ideals, and I'm trying to sort through my beliefs while developing new ones at the same time. Do I seek approval? Yes. Do I seek your approval? No - not yet, at any rate. Respect and trust comes before the blind need to please.
                                                                                                                                                                  
I'm not after a serious relationship right now. Someone to trade fantasies with and someone to converse with is what I'm looking for. Please do not email me and ask me to give you more than what I'm currently offering.

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CatDubh
 
 Age: 44
 Manitoba, Canada