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I am 62, with real-life experience. And, yes, I am looking for a woman who is submissive. Seeking a woman for long-term play. No, I'm not married! You only need to know, right now, that the circumstances of my life don't allow me to enjoy a 24/7 lifestyle kind of relationship. If we become acquainted, I will explain further. Nothing horrible, I assure you. You should be able to enjoy your submission as much as I enjoy being dominant. Your limits and boundaries are real and I would respect them. Mutual trust, gained over time, leads to mutual pleasure that goes far beyond the vanilla. You will tell me what you are thinking and feeling, what your needs and desires are. Don't be embarassed. I've been involved in the lifestyle and have known the amazing bond that can be formed between a Dom and his sub. I want that. I want to lead you, not drag you! I have the strength to lead, you should have the strength to follow. I've got no problem if you are inexperienced. I have no need, or desire, to destroy your sense of who you are, or your self-worth. I will keep them both strong. And, while I am not afraid to try new things, I am not careless in doing so. There can be an intense thrill without harm. You will come to trust me enough to "let go". I'm patient. I will keep looking. I am single, nearing some level of retirement. Not looking to complicate anybody's life, or even do the 24/7 micormanagement thing! I'm sure you have a life filled with family, friends, work. I do, as well. But, I do seek real, ongoing intimacy, a crazy weekend, occasionally, and exchanging gifts at Christmas and not having to spend all of our energies telling lies or keeping secrets. Those are the things that matter - not how old you are, or what you look like or the color of your skin, or your hair. I do want you to be intelligent, have strength and purpose and be ready to make that very important choice: to submit. I want to talk about everything, discuss anything. So we know, and understand, each other. I know that we might not be right for each other, but there is only one way to find out! Though it seems as if everybody says it: I am real and I am serious. If in your mind and being, there is a growing attitude and need to submit, then you should be responding and telling me about yourself. While a pic would be great, I can wait. But, I will want to verify, very soon, that you are who you say you are, with a phone call and a picture. We will meet sooner, rather than later.
4/23/2013 1:17:06 PM

If you understand this quote, you might be the person I seek!

 

"........by your giving, you are who you are."

 

 

TENDERLYCRUEL
 
 Age: 32
 Newburgh, New York