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If you know me in person, feel free to address me by what you know me as! Otherwise, I prefer Crystal.
Please read the below before contacting me, thank you x
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The start of 2017 saw me choose a word as a theme for my year ahead. That word was 'authenticity'. I am on a path of consciously making choices in my life to embrace my true self, including all my layers that help make me who I am as a whole. Learning more about my sexuality, my emotions, my values and beliefs, while actively seeking new people to experience this journey with and to love and care for - while being loved and cared for, in return.
A Bit About Me
I'm sarcastic, loving, affectionate and open minded. I'm a bit of a hermit - if I'm having a laugh, experiencing closeness/love and not wearing shoes then I'm generally pretty easily pleased. I don't drink. I don't wear makeup, I like the simple things in life and I have a bit of a hippie vibe about me. I like genuine, gentle and kind people. I believe kissing, cuddling and other forms of light physical touch are truly underrated - let's hold hands, play with each others hair and compliment each other!
Me as a babygirl/sub
This shouldn't really need to be said, however to clarify I am submissive when I choose to be. Just because I identify as sexually submissive, it does not mean that I am submissive to anyone who claims to identify as a Dom. Thank you for respecting this.
I'm mostly a sub sexually and there are things about the little/babygirl lifestyle that appeal to me, while still viewing myself as quite an independent woman. Being a babygirl is not something I view my personality as being 24/7, I feel that elements of this side of me come and go depending on things such as who I'm interacting with, any 'little' triggers, my mood or even for no particular reason. I like to have intelligent conversations and talk about the world around us. I like the idea of tailoring my life and my relationship/s as I see fit - and not how society says they should be.
I'm not into being bratty, disciplined or having pain inflicted upon me. I am attracted to the headspace of being (consensually) coerced into inappropriate behaviour and being taken advantage of. I like being praised, and am not into derogatory name calling or punishment. I'm all about power play, and being abused and manipulated by someone I trust and/or in a position of power. I want to submit to someone I care about under the pretence that they are (consensually) 'abusing' me because 'they know best and it's okay'.
I do not respond to anger, threats or violence. I need to be treated with care.
I am monogamous when it comes to romantic relationships. This is something I feel strongly about. It is important to me that I stress this, I know in my heart what I need.
(Note: I am currently single, however NSA sex has never been of interest to me. For me personally, engaging sexually with another person is about sharing an experience with someone you connect with and expressing your feelings about that person in a physical way. I don't need to be in a relationship to be physically intimate, however I do require a true mental and emotional connection)
What I'm Looking For
- Ultimately seeking a long term relationship. I am interested in incorporating elements of both DDLG and Vanilla to suit us, and someone with compatible kinks would be great too. (Feel free to see the groups I'm in or my fetishes below to get a general idea). At the end of the day, my main priority in this respect is to find someone to to love and to feel that love right back. Not everyone is a Dom and that's okay with me
- People to connect with mentally and emotionally and potentially help explore one another's kinks. I can't stress enough how important an emotional connection is to me before anything physical could be established, if this is of no interest to you then I don't want to waste anyone's time
- New friendships with people I can be my truly vulnerable self around. Would like to meet people similar to myself so we can relate to each other, have fun together and explore our deeper selves in a safe place
Crys x
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