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Brokenhope

Male Dominant, 53, Chicago, far west, Illinois
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Brokenhope - Female Submissive, Orlando Florida | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Brokenhope

i am a recent transplant from New York. Currently things are pretty hectic with the move and all, but i do want to get to know people here in Florida a bit better or, at least, establish some friendships on line at first and see what happens from there. i think, like everyone else, i am very busy with work and my "vanilla life", but do enjoy the free time i have talking and sharing with like minded individuals and enjoying each others company. i am pretty open to just about anything You might want to share or discuss and looking forward to getting to know others who might have the same interests.

Sometimes i just think about things and wonder why?

I have never gone to sleep with a grievance against anyone. And, as far as I could, I have never let anyone go to sleep with a grievance against me. -Abba Agathon, monk (4th/5th century)

It seems we might all be looking for the same thing here in the end and, yet, few of us are able to find that which we seek.  The more one might define exactly what they expect and desire with greater specificity the further we might stray from our ultimate goal.

As cliche as it is, i could not help but think on this day of those things that have transpired over the year.  i came into this lifestyle with many preconceived erroneous ideas of what a submissive was- and yet was rewarded with the hope and knowlege of what i might be if i just don't quit or get kicked out of the D/s "Continuum" before attaining just a small measure of this most honorable and worthy calling.  Perhaps i just might redeem myself in 2009.
i remember a few years back in business when changes were made in order to be "politically correct" to change from extending wishes for a Merry Christmas to Happy Holidays.  And whatever those holidays may be i am all for being sensitive to others.  However, i think perhaps one important area is overlooked and that is the fact that for very many individuals this is a very difficult time of year for a multitude of reasons where none of the "politically correct" well wishes could quite match what some individuals are coping with and enduring.  Sometimes i think of such things and hope i would not appear insensitive in such instances.
"Whatever has a beginning has an ending: make your peace with that and all will be well."
 ?The Buddha
i wanted to clarify my last entry regarding online fakes/players.  Please be assured i was not saying that i have experienced them and was complaining at all.  i was trying to say that it is sad that some have felt used or there has been gross misrepresentations with those they have dealt with that results in difficulty in communications riddled with mistrust and walls.  Being careful and cautious is important by all means - it was just my general observation that so many have felt betrayed and lied to in a lifestyle where honesty and respect are so critical.  Then again, in a perfect world a lot of things would be different.
It saddens me that when i have read so many profiles stating the frustration in reality and/or perceived idea that this site consists of so many fakes/players.  It is difficult to try to get to know someone else because they have been mislead so many times and then You/you yourself are afraid to be open.  i suppose that in the end one must rely on patience and the hope that a special possibility is not lost.

i realize i have a lot to do to get my profile 100% yet.  Although i am not new to the lifestyle, i have a long way to go.  There are so many, it seems, divisions and aspects of it all to be considered.  There seem to be many different points of views, but this, also, is a good thing - as that is what makes us all so unique.  i think one of the hardest things is falling in love with a partner whose belief or needs of the lifestyle are of a much lesser degree than your own or to a much greater degree.  This is so much not the place to take anything quickly without a lot of deep thought and consideration in what would be best for one's partner in the longrun.  i have learned this the hard way - rushing in caught up in the excitement of it all.  i hope the experience has made me a better person.

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