TRAPEZE ARTIST WANTED - NET OPTIONAL
Are you sitting uncomfortably? Good, then I'll begin. But, first, a public health announcement: read no further if you can't string a sentence together, or are here simply to pretend to be something that you're not. You will stain my inbox. Doormats, switches and sexual bikes, please stop gawking and cycle on...nothing to see here
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As I rush headlong towards death, well amble in amiable resignation, I can't help but recall the song 'Chu-Chi Face' from the the film 'Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.' It produced an instant big-top in the shorts of the small, crusty boy that I then was. Sex, spite, costumes, cages, threat, paradox, laughter, Prussian allegories - the foundations of my inner life and outer tumescence were well and truly laid.
I'm searching for the bastard child of Anais Nin and Lee Miller, with Jane Austen as a maiden aunt. Failing that I'll settle for an intelligent, sensation-greedy, profoundly responsive, submissive woman. Does she exist? Experience would suggest so, but then experience is frequently redefined by novelty.
For me the sweat of intensity that I savour, precludes notches on bedposts. I'm likely to rub along best with a woman who is not interested in servicing the massed ranks of the London Fire Brigade (or rather is interested, but would prefer to narrow her focus to more manageable horizons). Kink lives in the mind, pervades the soul and enflames the body.
I have wit, looks, appetite and a love of sex and all the pleasures proved and some of those yet to be empirically established. I am demanding and assertive but also prone to conversation and humour of the dry as sand variety. Compassion and acceptance are as much a part of me as any inherent bastardinicity. I'm comfortable with that. Being dominant does not necessitate calling myself 'Ozymandias' or strutting around in a leather jerkin. I shudder. Beyond jiggery and pokery, books, film, music and art fill my life. Commonality lies in that direction.
I have a platonic female partner and am here with her full knowledge and consent. What remains true is that my focus on my parallel submissive sexual partner has always been absolute within the space and dynamic that we create together. I like learning. You should too.
Generally, I find the self-conscious, cultivated 'otherness' of kink society unutterably dull, rigid and prescriptive. People are infinitely interesting. Sadly, kink doesn't make them so. Nosce te ipsum.
Interest me. I dare you.
