Looking for some one that is serious in how they feel toward the vanilla and lifestyle. I think we all know how we get along in the vanilla but NOT the lifestyle part. Seeking only serious and for real partner or maybe LTR. I do think that any relationship takes care of its self. I know that a certain part of it is playing on line but it is not the only part. Yes I am into real time and nothing can beat it as far as fantasy and reality go. I am more for the real time aspect of it. It takes a special person that wants this and not just the play part on line that is what I am looking for. I am very opened minded and like to talk things over but it does take a lot to train some one in the lifestyle and not just do it. Partners are all right and sessions are fine and I do NOT limit myself in what I am looking for as long as the heart is in the right place. I see so many do on here but then to each his own now. Looking for takers not players but we never know untill we try. If you just want to hold hands that is not for me. Time to get real and know where we are now and what we want.