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| I'm not anybody's perfect guy. Just get over it. I'm post mid-life catastrophe and starting over. I'm NOT looking for moonlit walks on the beach, NOT looking for a stroll through some park to "get to know you". There are other places I could go for "online" relationships - so no, I don't chat. And no, I DON'T have or want a cam. I don't want to WATCH you have fun. I'm also not in the position of lavishing anyone with expensive restaurants, clubs, shows or the like. I don't need to buy anyone. And oh God, I'm NOT Mr. Right! But, I love to laugh and want to please, in or out of bed. I love the comfort of leisurely sex and even more, the leisurely comfort after sex. I'm looking for someone to get to know. I'm looking for friends with (eventual) benefits. Let me get this straight: I'm looking for friends FIRST. I have to trust you on a couch before I'll trust you in a bed. I'm a good friend. Once a friend, friend for life. PS - If you can't spell or use moderately appropriate grammar in your post, we probably won't have much to talk about in person. I DO have SOME standards!
I'm black, short, old, broke, starved for emotional and physical affection and willing to wait for the one who won't run away a short time down the road. I've got my Master's degree, though it hasn't made much difference in my life. I'm newly dependent on SSI and when my last relationship broke apart, so did my car. I just moved to Jackson, MI (it's cheaper) and feel trapped here.
I've got baggage. Anyone my age who says they don't is either a liar or hasn't had any relationships - which in itself creates baggage. The difference with my baggage is that I don't believe I have to carry it around with me all the time. I don't have to bring it into another relationship. I DO find myself lonely and wishing I could share myself with someone warm and comfortable. I guess what I'm asking is if you'd like to take (a small) chance on me? I don't know about you, but people don't often like to respond to messages, even to say,"Hell NO!" I'm hoping you"re not like that.
I've always dreamed of having a sex slave. Basically, I want to do things to you that I've never done before and get better at things I have. You need to be a Sub. If you're not short, you need to be open to a 5' 3" black man. You should be open to sexual experimentation and should be able to tell me about your desires - in and out of bed. You should respect my baggage as I will yours. Talk to me! Take a joke, especially a serious one. Extramarital affairs or any relationship which might end up with me in court, the paper or the morgue, do not interest me.
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OK. I figured it out. I have a program called No Script attached to my browser that was preventing me from doing much on these pages or seeing much. I turned it off. I'm MUCH happier. |
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OK. I'm getting irritated with this site. When I look at"Who's viewing me", there are a fair number of people. Some have pictures and some don't. I can see the profiles of the one's without pictures, but not the one's who provide tempting shots of themselves. Why? And why can't I search for peoples' profile by name?
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And what's up with all the people here who aren't looking for someone? I've just been through dozens of profiles of people who are close, age and size appropriate and just what I'm looking for except the first sentence of their profile states "I have found my Master. He's just what I've been looking for." This is like going to a bar. Maybe it's just that I'm getting discouraged. Oh well. |
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I've been on Alt.com, .com and all the rest for about 3 years and have just about given up on finding who I'm looking for. I joined this site with low expectations. Lo and behold, the very next day someone contacted me. She is physically my size, obviously conversant with the lifestyle and even lives in my state! There ARE downsides. She has issues that she needs to solve/address. If she consents to getting to know me and possibly meet ...
I mustn't get my hopes too high. She's 60 miles away with no ride, just like me.
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| Age: 99 |
| Elmhurst,
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