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I have a few friends here....I am proud to have one friend who knows me perhaps better than anyone. We converse and we discuss, our stories are for each other. I'm not looking for anyone but am happy to have good conversation and always willing to learn. The switch designation is sort of a "default". I am not trying to hide but I will only share when there is a friendship and then I am as some know, very open and transparent. I am married in my real life and intend to stay that way. If by being here, means I am not loyal to some, then that is their reason for wanting to avoid me and I am fine with that. I am probably a better friend to someone more like me so we can share our thoughts and feelings about our similarities. My friends know I am protective and respect their privacy and their life styles no matter what their choices. I seek the same and do not understand those who would rather judge than connect. I have never put much on my profile and this is the most I have ever written. I think its a good time to do so to avoid mis- understandings and offense to those who have different views. For those with differing views, I'm still happy to discuss and learn and wish you well in finding your happiness no matter what it is or were it brings you. The great things about the D/s people and places I have visited is that they of all people, understand tolerance perhaps better than most. I dont have a picture but my friends know what I look like but for the record, I'm average in height, slim and work out 5-6 days a week, I have been told I am not unattractive but you would probably not give more than a quick glance if you saw me on the street. I am older than most here. I am not a young man but I am a very strong one and youthful in my ways. Many have a hard time keeping up with me and I can be manic., but never depressed and hardly ever exhausted. If you want to talk, reach out, find a way, and I'll answer. I have no protocol in rooms...you can IM me and I wont be offended but if I am busy I'll let you know. My friends come first. Thanks reading this much , this far....its way more than I intended. Do not under any circumstances share my conversations, any photos I might provide (rarely), or anything said in IM ....that is private and I never share with others what is siad to me in private. You are safe with me although most of what I talk about would be considered rather boring by many here lol.
GypsyWillow
 
 Age: 32
 Mt.carmel, Illinois