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Looking for a dom top who understands the dynamics of a SIR/boy relationship- whether it's a one time session or more long-term.
Being a boy for me means:
- always doing as I'm told
- always thinking about SIR's needs first, rarely concerned about mine.
- making sure that SIR is pleased and always taken care of
- never questioning SIR's authority (once he has proven to boy that he is strong enough to lead both of us through the journey). That means: SIR will have absolute authority over his boy. If SIR wants to do it - then boy will endure it.
Boy can get into just about anything with the right SIR: restrictive bondage, leather, toys, ws, cum, any and all S&M activities, gear, ass play, cbt, tt, electro, and much more. SIR decides what He wants to do and makes all decisions. Boy takes it and thanks SIR.
I am not in a rush and I like to take things slow. I enjoy building a connection with a man and feel just as comfortable cuddling and making out as when I am bound and used. In fact, those two go together with me.
If this sounds like something you'd be interested in exploring - let me know. I will patiently be waiting for SIR's orders.
This should go without saying but the pics in my profile are me.
UPDATE 1: All these self-proclaimed dom tops need to stop worrying so much about pleasing the sub and realize that it's ok if the boy doesn't get into everything that's being done to him. A true submissive's pleasure comes from knowing that he's pleasing his Sir - not from being pleased and telling his top what to do.
UPDATE 2: Just got back from my first Folsom weekend and I'm totally hooked! Leather and S&M is becoming an integral part of my life and I couldn't be happier about it. I can still mess around with the "jock on the DL" type but I find that I connect better with the naturally dominant and older type who has experience with the scene and is proud of who he is.
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