I'm a young man, dark brown hair, medium built, sportive, non-smoker, social drinker, intelligent, creative, educated, children like me, good sense of humor, and -believe it or not- in real life I'm modest and quite shy, especially to strangers. I enjoy to go running and cycling, and in the summer I like to swim in open waters (no pools). People say I'm quite the chef, and I enjoy a good glass of wine (or champagne). I'm a polite, kind and developed person who can take you to gala-events and who won't embaress you when I meet your parents, but when the moment is there, I'm up for some impulsive and crazy fun. I may be a grown man, but the child inside me is still very alive, and every once in a while, I have to let him out to play. I haven't uploaded a photo. You can only get a picture on demand as I naturally don't want colleagues or friends to be able to identify me.

I'm basically looking for people who want to share interests, talk about their experiences, etcetera. I'm not actively looking for instant sex-meetings; I wouldn't feel comfortable with it, but you never know: maybe we'll get to know each other a little better and one day turn some of our fantasies into reality. Email me if you're interested and who knows; we might become friends.

As for my own fantasies: I've always been with women, and I've always enjoyed the sex, but I'm curious about sex with men. I'm willing to give that a try. The tought of kissing a man is rather repellant, but oddly enough, I would like to try giving a blowjob, taking your (or your friend's) cum in my mouth and even swallowing it. I'm also very curious about being taken analy... gently... at first :) Spurting in a girl's mouth has always been a turn-on for me, but certainly not something I would 'insist' upon.

I think about bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism, but I haven't had a partner who was into this, so I haven't tried much and can't really say what I would enjoy the most. For example: while getting a blowjob, I don't feel an urge to be 'in control', but if this does happen, I enjoy it. On the other hand, I like to be teased during oral play. A similar thing happens when I'm licking pussy: I like it when she's dominant, pushing my onto her or sitting on my face. Nevertheless, I enjoy controlling her pleasure, by stopping just before she cums, and then starting again, hence building her up and making her beg for that big orgasm.

As for sex toys, I have experience ben-wa balls. It's a big turn on for if the girl and myself go out in public and no one knows she's wearing them. There also is a 'ladyfinger' vibrator. I find the idea of her masturbating with it very arousing, I like to watch it. I also like to take control and help her by licking and simultaniously dildoing, or using my fingers. I have another virbrator and a medium size buttplug which I only use on myself for anal play. They feel great, and I'm sure i could take larger things, moving faster. I wonder what a real cock must feel like in my ass... I also have a pair of fluffy handcuffs which I received as a gift. They aren't that restricting, but the tought alone makes them quite enjoyable. I both enjoy tieing someone up as being restricted myself.

I once read an article on figging, and just had to try it. I knew my girlfriend wasn't into it, so I worked alone, and I must say: it was very enjoyable. I would certainly like to share this experience with someone who is also as open-minded.

Another thing which enhances sex in a good way is shaving. I like to shave a girl's pubic hair, and I like to shave myself. I always leave the extent of the stripe of hair from the navel to the penis (what, in my dialect, is known as "the penis pointer") evened out but not shaven away, as some women told me they like the tickeling of this hair against their clitoris during intercourse. So, I enjoy shaven sex and the shaving itself. When I do it, I fantasise I own a 'intimite hair styling'-business, which is great fun.

That's just a few things I'm into, but there is an unlimited vastness of enjoyment left undiscovered. Perhaps we could send a few mails, and fill in each others blancs: switch ideas, share experiences and fantasies, learn from each other about ourselves. That would be quite nice. So, don't hesitate to drop me a line, I'll certainly write back to you. I will always respect your fantasies and your privacy.

Lots of greetings, hope to hear you soon!

- Bosvrucht