I am in my mid 40’s with a voluptuous body. I am fairly easy going, independent, respectful and not high maintenance. I generally know what I want and where I’m heading in life, and will usually say what is on my mind.

While my experience of being bound is limited, I want to be tied up, naked and at the mercy of a sensual, erotic top/dom, vulnerable, totally exposed and hope that I will be use for both his and my pleasure.

I also love being tied up (rope art) for several hours making my mind and body slow down and to be teased and used for yours and my pleasure.

I have a strong personality but enjoy being submissive in a relationship, especially when the Dom has taken the time to get to know me and knows how to get the best out of me.

I have a passion for pleasing my partner and believe that the more I give, the more I will get back in return. Trust and open communication and freely giving feedback is imperative in any relationship.

Given some of the profiles I have read on this site, I feel I need to say that I am no doormat, and am not interested in relinquishing responsibility for the decisions I make about my life.

Outside of play I enjoy the outdoors, camping, dinner and dancing, live theatre, movies, country drives and checking out the local markets and novelty shops, travel, to name a few.

If you only gain enjoyment from hard play with a pain slut, TPE, want a 24/7 sub, or only want a casual/part time relationship, please do not waste your time or mine

If you are a Dom/Top who has a passion for his girl being vulnerable to his every sexual whim and taking her to places she has never been before via the realms of pleasurable pain, bondage, erotic stimulation, sensory deprivation, breast/nipple play, orgasm control, light whipping, hair pulling ,fisting, mind fucking, etc etc. who enjoys stimulating conversation and would prefer to have a fairly ‘normal’ monogamous relationship outside of the bedroom/behind closed doors/great outdoors, whereever he likes to play. I look forward to hearing from you.