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Hetero Male Submissive, 52,  BayArea, California
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Sane, sincere, secure, educated gent in San Francisco. My profile says it all. It may not be for everyone but in the event it even slightly appeals to You it would be good to make a new friend in the community.

And, yes, i know the photos and some of the subject matter in my profile may not appeal to every Lady. All i ask is that You respect the path i have chosen, just as i respect Yours.

i seek a Domme Lady for friendship and, ideally, a deep and meaningful LTR. i recognize that the road to that may be long...

i have no preconceived notions of how old my Lady will be i am fully prepared to be Her cuckold and be emasculated by Her (yes, castrated) and for Her if the relationship is profound.

Ever since childhood i have revered Women and placed Them on a pedestal to be longed for and adored i have little interest in the conquest aspect of penetrative sex, being entirely oral, although i can per if called upon i am now ready to surrender everything for a committed life together.

i value physical tenderness and closeness above all. The idea of Divine Female energy flowing from an ample bosom into me is utterly electrifying, especially in counterpoint to the emasculation that i know is my destiny.

i have never really enjoyed penetrative sex and dont identify as an alpha male, except at the office. If my Lady requires penetrative sex i am capable of the act but would be equally delighted to hold Her hand tightly and stare into Her eyes while her more skilled lover provides Her with the pleasure She deserves. Hence the conclusion that i am, at the most profound level, a true cuckold-eunuch, not a man.

i am increasingly convinced that all this reflects a desire for spiritual purity and will allow me to a bond of the most intense kind in a relationship with a special Lady.

i am in great shape articulate and sensitive but no wimp self aware but not self absorbed an educated, widely-read and widely-traveled gentleman in the eyes of the world at large. Feel free to ask me any questions whatsoever.

i am sincere -- all i ask is that you be, too.


PS This video moves me to tears... so beautiful!












 Submissive Male



 6' 1"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

 Lives For:


 You controlling my male parts

 You punishing my gentials



 Intellectual Discourse




 Female Sovereignty


 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater



 Horseback Riding


 Being allowed to see your breasts (Beginner)

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Rear End Play

 Being humiliated by you

 You wearing masks

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Medical fetish play

 You deciding when I'm allowed sexual pleasure

 You deciding what I wear

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Rubber Fetish

 Being allowed to see you in stockings


 Historical Shows


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music

 Opera Music

 Show Tunes

 Auto Racing





 Going to the Opera



 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 You putting me on a leash

 You placing masks on me

 Role Playing

 You using a strap-on on me

 Conservative Politics

 Rock Music

 Curious About:


 Vacuum Stimulation




 Political Activism


 Fire Play

 Hip Hop Music



 Investment Professional

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Journal Entries:
3/26/2018 6:06:31 AM
This video moves me almost to tears

10/15/2011 6:00:58 PM

Great gif's, added Nov 10 2013






Found these delicious vids...   i hope there will be a Lady out there who will enjoy these as much as i do...


and a scientific article

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