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bluecherrybomb

****Profile being edited. Not sure what to put here for now.******* I don't really know what to put here. I am painfully boring, even with my fantastic blue hair.
I am looking for friends, maybe someone to play with. I'm not into mindgames, and I'm not an unpaid therapist. Honesty is a must. If you lie to me, I can't trust you. If I can't trust you, why do I want you in my life?
I am a perpetual student, a deep thinker, and I love a good conversation that challenges my ideals. To say I'm sapiosexual is an understatement. I love a reader, but I have my t.v. loves, too. I would rather wander an art museum than a windy beach, but my perfect day is a cuddle session and a Doctor Who marathon.
What does any of this have to do with sex? I know. I'm a boring nerd who happens to love sex, but needs a mentally stimulative partner. Sex isn't a completely emotional experience for me. It's not a sacred rite, performed out of love. You're thinking of homemade meals, bathing you when you're too weak to take care of yourself, or holding someone you love while they cry. THOSE things are sacred. Orgasms are amazing ways our body comes to ecstacy without giving you a complete stroke. Not sacred as much as amazing and fantastic. I know it sounds bitchy, but I would like you to engage me mentally. That attracts me more than anything. Sure, I'd love to see your cock, ass, pussy, or tit photos. After I know they're attached to someone I can have a conversation with. Otherwise, they're genuinely not a turn-on. I'd rather be bitchy and honest than super sweet and lie. Any day. I don't respond to two-word messages, because we're both worth more than that. I'm also not looking to collar, be collared, be someone's "baby", or any of that. In my experience, it's nothing but a way for someone who I don't even see on a regular basis to try to control my life. I don't play well with authority figures. chuckles No, seriously. I don't. I'm pansexual and polyamorous. That should be enough. And, apparently there isn't a slot for this, but, yes, I am married. He knows I'm on here, and he is, too.
faithfulandloyal
 
 Age: 23
 Batavia, New York