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| I'm fairly blunt and forward because I don't like wasting time. We are all on here for roughly the same reason so what's the point of beating around the bush. But that does not mean I'm an asshole or enjoy being rude to people. I grew up well bred and was taught manners and respect at a young age so if your looking for someone to call you names from the get go, It's probably not me.
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Kink wise I'm at least somewhat interested in almost everything. I'm one of those try everything once and do what makes you happy types of people so as long as your not hurting anyone, to each their own kink. As far as non sex related I'm all over the place when it comes to my interests. I have a Masters degree and am currently employed as an Officer in the Military.I enjoy reading immensely as well as working out, working on my house and really just about anything outdoors. I�always have some goal I'm working towards and expect the same in whomever I date.
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For those who want to get to know me, be sincere in that intention. I have no time for those who pretend and who play with others. I will always make time for someone but first you have to prove you're worth the time I make. I don't spam messages and am fairly particular in who I keep company with. So if I messaged you it means I saw something unique and special in you.
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I tend not to post things in my journal to often. Seems to be only when the whim strikes me and I have no other outlet... Such is life. Today though it is to record what I am likely to forget even though it's sitting I wish hold onto. So I woke up from a dream a short while ago. It is a dream I have occasionally whenever I am single and staying on dwell on the idea of simulated and if I shall ever meet "the one" Basically in the dream there is a woman who's face I can never remember upon waking up. Despite never remembering her face when I wakeup, I do recall that during the entire dream I am filled with feelings of happiness and tenderness. In several cases she has come to me naked, sometimes in desire of me and other times in distress of a situation. Each time I cloth her and care for her rather then take advantage of her. This indescribable women, because of her beauty and the tenderness that I feel towards her, is able to subdue any base desire I have for sex replace it only with concern for her happiness.I think some might think this means that possibly deep down I am submissive. I don't think this is the case. It is more a feeling of not wanting to dishonor a person I have such strong feelings for. I do wish I could recall her face though, if only to better recognize her when I met her in real life. |
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What's the difference between a fin domme and a whore? A whore you pay to make you feel good, a fin domme you pay so that they can feel good. This site is full of fin dommes, none of which are unique or special in any way. What, did the government no longer want to give you welfare. Get a real job and how about instead of taking advantage of idiots you give back to them. |
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So the vast majority of people on here whine and complain about how rude everyone is when they message them. How they get verbally abused because they are a sub, how that get lied to or lead on or even that all guys want to do is talk about sex. While I do agree that people should try to be polite and such and use the general rules of first introduction, that is a two way street. What I mean by that is if I'm going to be courteous and respectful then you should be the same.
It's rude to stop talking to someone mid conversation. You wouldn't randomly walk away from a conversation in real life without at least saying you don't agree or that you have to go, So why do it here? The read message shows if someone read your message. So if we are talking and you suddenly stop responding then your being rude. I understand life comes up and you have to step away for a few hours or a day but if it shows you read my last message and didn't respond, then your being rude. At least give the courtesy of saying your done talking or no longer interested. Bottom line if you want to be treated with respect then you have to give it. |
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I'm thinking some people don't know what the term switch means. If all you ever mention in your profile is that you like to control people and that at most are not even worth your time, that you enjoy abusing people, or that you like having a pay pig, then you're really more of a Dom. A switch is someone who enjoys both roles. Additionally it's a little bit odd how many people say they are looking for friends just to talk with, yet won't talk if your not in their area. Yea I wonder what they are really looking for...
Finally, to end this journal entry, It's a bit foolish to associate a gender with a negative experience. There seems to be a fair amount of people on here that complain about a gender. They believe that since they have been wronged by someone of that gender then everyone else belonging to it must be bad. By that logic then if you tripped on a sidewalk with cracks in it then you shouldn't want anything to do with all sidewalks. A gender did not cause an issue or a negative memory, it was a specific individual. Often times its a decision we made that leads up to the event i.e. meeting up with a complete stranger from a fetish website that you've only known for a few days. But it's not the male population or female population as a whole that is the issue, it is a specific person that wronged you. Think about it. |
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A find it odd that women on here are not as proactive in searching for tgere right person as the men are. The reason being is that women on here claim that their mailboxes quickly fill up, often times with spam or negative remarks. This of course means that any quality messages sent get lost with all the garbage. So that means it is automatically more difficult for a message to be received. If you combine this with the fact that men tend to be more open to different types of women, and that women tend to be the more picky of the two in terms of looking for the one with qualities that they like, well it would only make sense for the women to message the men instead of vice versa.
Now this is by no means a cop out if a traditional male role. And, as I mentioned before, a submissive might have a little bit harder time sending the message. However if you have an interest in someone and don't know what to say, just say hello. That at least lets me kniw you have an interest and ill take it from there. Think we all need to start following some parental advice and just say hello. |
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| Age: 28 |
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