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Not so much an oil painting, more of an oil disaster
Short, 5'6", powerful, stocky with a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp, i have a "wide parting", but am very hairy everywhere else. Clean and hygenic at all times, I am what i am.
Mad as a box of frogs, I prefer long term associations but will enjoy quick one offs, as long as they are safe, sane and consensual. Safe sex always. Can and do travel and try to be flexible about meets.
I want to have fun, good old fashioned fun and more fun, life is far too short and with only one chance at life I have decieded I want to die of exhaustion!!!!! This is not a practice for something else, it is your only chance so go for it.
BDSM is about control, not pain. I am interested in all aspects of swinging NOT just Sm, it is not a pre-requisite just one aspect of many.
Built for comfort to last and repeat, not for speed. I love to kiss, caress and touch. I do answer all messages (thats because I get so few!!!), I do turn up. I love sex, clean sex, dirty sex, DS sex,SM sex, quick sex, long sex in fact all sex.
I take life as it comes and do not regard myself too seriously. I try to enjoy life and that includes the physical side of it.
Ex military, very black sense of humour but a good one.
Have been involved in the swinging scene, and the S&M scene for a while.
Phone number and photo are required before meets as I have spent too long sitting in car parks or driving miles for nothing.
Discretion a must, both ways.
BDSM is about Control, not pain
BDSM - Bondage, Domination, Submission, Masochism. That is my take, you have SM or Ms sub/Master or Master/sub also.
Submission. Is conquering the mind, setting boundaries to follow, rules that are not to be broken, providing support, care, smacks, cuddles, humiliation, pleasure, (pain if wanted), but above all control. Total control so that when an order (a suggestion) is given it is obeyed without question, the sub may not want to do in fact it is better if they occasionally are pushed into doing things they dont want too.They do not question , they do not comment, they do. Their pleasure is taken by giving their master pleasure, by obeying their every command, whim, want.
Mentally it must be complete, the physical side will then follow.
It can reach the stage of what the sub eats, wears, watches does, here the cuckold must also fit in if it is that type of relationsip. It can be when they do, what they do, where they do.
On the physical side their bodies belong to their master, he decides if they can have sex, can orgasm, cannot orgasm. Pushed orgasm and orgasm denial are part of the submission.
Trust and respect are paramount in this and must be established first
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