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Hello everyone,
I am going to do my best to introduce myself and to sum up and entire person in a few paragraphs.
I am single and not involved in any way. I am finding more and more that purely Vanilla relationships are not for me and have yet to find a like-minded lady with whom to have a relationship. Not that a relationship in the standard sense of the word is all I seek.
I am a 25-year-old submissive white male. I am 5'8 with brown hair and brown eyes. Overall I am lean, but I do have a large upper body (chest and arms). I have very little body hair except for what is on my head and my nethers. I guess I am what can generally be considered attractive (who’s really to say what this is) from a physical standpoint. I do my best to keep in shape by running, lifting weights and various other activities about five to seven days a week, work and life permitting. I apologize for starting with a physical description, as I know it is far less important than the other aspects that comprise me as an individual, but I figured I would get it out of the way.  
I have been interested in the scene / kink since I can remember. I always knew that I was different in a way. I reacted differently to being picked on by the older girls at summer camp and never got into the macho I fucked so and so locker-room talk after wrestling practice. I am a very sexual person by nature and distinctly remember taking Masters and Johnson off my father’s bookshelf when I was only 13. It took me till the time I was 15 to finish it LOL but I am just trying to illustrate a point.
While my interest has always been there, my active involvement has only been over the last two years. This said I am trying to become as involved as I can and to meet new people and take more of an active role in my alt lifestyle and being. My actual experience is limited and thus far I have been to a few play parties and have played with a few people in private. I am an active member of Black Rose and have been to the Crucible and Paddles in NYC on multiple occasions. I have been reading, learning about and privately exploring all things kink related for many years and am therefore somewhat knowledgeable/versed/familiar with BDSM, FEMDOM, and Kink etc. The reason I point this out is to show that as far as I am concerned there is more to work with so to speak than the individuals who seemingly wake up one day and decide that they want to be dominated. I hope that this statement does not come across as arrogant or in a negative way (not my intention at all). I am the first to say that I am no expert, know it all… or for that matter even very experienced sub. I know I have much to learn and miles upon miles to go. I will take much training and work but am fully committed to this and eager to stay the course.
As far as what I am into: As stated above I have been interested in BDSM and what we can call kink for lack of a better word, since I can remember. For a long time now many of my fantasies involve some form of humiliation, strap on play, bondage, corporal punishment (flogging etc.), servitude, verbal torment and many many other things. They all revolve around being dominated by, controlled by and subservient to women. I think that deep down somewhere I feel like I need to be punished for being a male, or for playing the part of the very masculine, attractive, outgoing and overly confident guy. I guess I am not entirely sure what the motivations are but I have always been aroused by women controlling and dominating men. Putting them in their place so to speak.
Another big part of it is that I am completely and totally infatuated with the female form. I love a women's smooth and flowing body and the heir of invincible elegance that they seem to radiate. I guess when it comes down to it men in many respects are pathetic. For instance the female anatomy and mind are so amazing. To pleasure a woman is an art. To get a guy off all you have to do is any reciprocated motion. With Women the cerebral or mental aspect plays such a large role. With a guy it is mostly physical. I this sense at least I feel as though I identify with women more. I am not saying that I do not enjoy or want to be a male but that I am very aware of, (what I consider) the genders shortcomings.
I am open to almost anything, and believe that closed
Mindedness is a sure way to miss much of life. I am a firm believer in safe and consensual play. I am honestly willing to try almost anything once. I am not saying that I do not have limits or am without a comfort zone, but other than children, bestiality and permanent scars I have few hard and fast boundaries.  If you would like to know more let me know and I will respond in a timely manner. After all I am here to learn and to grow. I am extremely eager to be more active and participate in FEMDOM and related activities and events.
    I am originally from NYC and moved down to DC for School and never left
I have many interests and skills outside of that related to the scene. I am very involved in animal rescue and always seem to be fostering a dog or two in addition to taking care of my own two. I love good food and wine and went to culinary school for about six months before college. I love to cook and have a decent wine collection (I am partial to the bolder Northern Italian varietals). I was a massage therapist and a personal fitness trainer while in college. I love to give massages and as stated above try to still keep in shape. I have been involved in martial arts for many years and teach Shota Khan Karate from time to time and train in Brazilian Jui Jitsu and Tai Boxing. I wrestled throughout high school and at a division one college. I love to Scuba dive and am a Certified PADI scuba instructor. I love to ski, surf, whitewater and ocean Kayak and the list goes on. I also have years and years of experience gardening and in landscaping.  One of my majors in college was English literature, specifically romantic era Poetry and William Blake and others will always hold a special place in my heart.
    Wow ok so I have been rambling or at the very least have written too much. I am sorry for wasting your time and appreciate your taking a part of your valuable day to read my autobiography of an introduction. There is a lot more that I would like to say but I have already said enough.

Thank you for your time and be well.

Humbly and truly yours,

Blake

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Shylah2001
 
 Age: 43
 Dublin, Ohio