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blackxkeyxbaby

I'm new to the BDSM community and lack experience, although I have been researching it for a long while now and have been a member of this site for years. I'm looking for someone that would be willing to introduce me slowly into things. A monogamous relationship would be ideal.

So because I'm new, I obviously don't have a solid opinion yet on some of what I will and won't like...so what's listed are simply the things that I probably wouldn't do. Anything else, I'd probably be open to.


I am not looking for hookups or someone to just simply play with. Because of the nature of this, and how much trust it involves, I really would like to be involved in a long-term relationship in order to explore the lifestyle with comfort. I want someone that I'd be comfortable with in all aspects of a relationship...not just the D/s stuff, so getting to know people before anything happens is essential. *I did also want to add this. If you intend on contacting me with the intent of a relationship in mind, please understand that if you are either younger than me or old enough to be my father (or grandfather) you are unlikely to be considered. I apologize to any that may offend.

*Also, just a fair warning: emails that have an abundance of misspelled words and improper grammar will be ignored. Nothing personal, just a pet peeve of mine. I consider myself intelligent and you should be as well.



***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
12/6/2011 3:31:36 PM

Since it was brought to my attention that I rarely (read never) update this journal, I thought I'd just write something so that anyone looking could see I am still active here.

To anyone who has taken note of the previous journal entries, yes, you could say that my family issues have calmed down in that they are no longer issues.  At the time, I was trying to deal with helping my grandmother deal with cancer, taking her to weekly treatments, etc., however since she passed away last year, obviously this is no longer a stressor.  I am still very saddened by her loss; I spoke to my grandmother every day for my entire life so her absence is great in my life, but I'm coping for the most part.

I have had some significant accomplishments in the past year, the most notable being that I earned my B.A. in English and Creative Writing with a minor in Gender Studies in May of 2011.  By May 2012 I should have earned my secondary education certification.

Anyway, hopefully I'll have better luck on this site than I've had in the past. I've been a member for years and while I have had the opportunity to talk to a few people that seem to be quite genuine and interesting, as of yet, nothing has come of any of these conversations.  I'm crossing my fingers that this changes sometime soon.

Best wishes to everyone that reads and happy holidays as well.

5/4/2009 10:01:00 PM
So I'm not on here so much anymore. I'm dealing with pretty major issues with my family lately as well as still trying to keep up with school and work. To anyone I don't respond to right away- I apologize; I am very busy at the moment, but I'll try to get back to you eventually.

There are one or two people I've had the opportunity to talk to on here that make me really wish for more spare time. It is my hope that when all the current craziness in my life cools down a little there will still be some interest.

Here's hoping that everyone is having a far better year than I have so far.
1/26/2009 10:11:39 PM
Hopefully no one will take this the wrong way. Please. Please. If you are not able to address me with complete sentences and with proper grammar and spelling there is no need to address me at all. How can I possibly be expected to converse with someone who has yet to grasp the concept of the English language? I don't intend in any way to offend anyone, but seriously. Everyone on here is old enough to know how to use grammar and functions and spell properly. Or at least in theory they should be.
3/15/2008 10:12:21 PM
I haven't been on lately. A lot of things have been going on lately that I've been trying to handle and it's all just a lot to deal with. I do wish something would go smoothly for me once in a while. Anyway, that's where I've been. Dealing with life, which right now for some reason, just isn't going well at all. Hopefully everyone else is faring better than me.
submissive226
 
 Age: 25
 Canada