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Hello and welcome to my own little slice of heaven here on Collarspace. I am Black Sage, though I am sure you already knew that. I have been a member of the local kink community since February of 2014, however I have known about the dominant in me for nearly a decade. I am originally from Philly but I moved to Lancaster county in August of 2012. I am a shy introvert by nature and usually am I wrapped up in thoughts about my next chapter or project to speak. I am a good listener and give great hugs. Be warned that once I am comfortable with or around you, it may be difficult for me to shut up. Trust me I am working on that though.
In the vanilla world I work security full time and during the quiet times, which there a lot of I am usually working on my series of novellas. The eight of them all form The Inverted World saga. In addition I am into photography, graphic design, and 3D design and animation. Security may be my day job, but it is not the full extent of what I do. Honestly even I have no idea of the extent of my capabilities, and I would not have it any other way. Struggle is what makes life worth living, so I struggle to exceed my own potential.
My hobbies include but are not limited to: Video games, manga, anime, driving and seeing new places. Getting out to parks to enjoy nature, reading, learning, martial arts and combat sports. Music is a huge part of my life and I listen to at least a few hours a day without fail.
I identify as a Dominant sadist, however I am more than the sum of my fetishes. My favorite by far is impact play, spanking in particular. Of course in time as I continue to grow and learn I will become more skilled in varied forms of play.
My style of Dominance a.k.a my DomStyle is best summarized by this quote:
"Don't get set into one form, adapt it and build your own, and let it grow, be like water. Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend."
-**Bruce Lee**
Limits:
Soft Limits: Blood and Needle play (Working through a phobia of needles)
Hard Limits: Scat, Animals, and Children
My view of subs/slaves: Just because you identify as a submissive or a slave does not mean you belong to me. Before all of the kink I acknowledge you as a human being and you will be treated with the respect a person deserves. I am not an abusive man and I promise that I will not abuse the trust and power given to me.
What I want out of the lifestyle: Ultimately I want a submissive(or switch) partner to love, (that's right I said it, the L word.) and build a family with. Your typically atypical house with a white picket fence two kids, a dog, and a dungeon in the basement.
Now until I find this woman I will network, learn, grow, and play.
Sex in kink: I am a highly sexual man, but I do not enter negotiations with the expectation of sex. I will not pursue it, but I will not refuse it either. Provided that precautions are taken and there is a mutual level of trust.
Questions, comments, concerns? If so feel free to send me a message, I always reply in a relatively timely manner. If you are interested in me, I also invite you to send me a message.
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