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| Some of you may not like some of the things I have to say here. Some of you will even be so "kind" as to give me something to laugh at by sending me email claiming that I am an asshole or use some other interesting vernacular or try to make a well reason argument as to why I should keep my opinions to myself… and that’s fine, like I said, I like a good laugh. Oh and I also like to repost your crap to Facebook and with your profile name and the URL to take them right to your page so everybody can have a good laugh at you too. I think that the healing power of laughter should be shared; don't you?
The above having been said, the following question now begs to be asked...
ON THIS SITE, ARE THERE ANY NON-PROFESSIONAL DOMINANTS, ANY ONE WHO ISN’T CALLING THEMSELVES A FINDOM OR JUST RUNNING SOME SORT OF GAME?
If you are a lifestyle Dominatrix not a financially predatory professional dominatrix (I know that's a mouth full) or you are also not a findom then you shouldn’t have a problem with what I have to say here. In fact, if you are a "real" lifestyle Dominant then you should probably stand with me for saying what needed to be said about how the pros and findoms on this site cheapen a submissives gift to an Owner by turning it into a business arrangement or flat out manipulation and thievery.
The pros and findoms that advertise here are thieves that inundate us with SPAM that we have to sort through thereby stealing time from those of us who are looking for a real relationship. These thieving pros and findoms also steal from the owners of this website by not paying to advertise here. This is a free personals site that is supported by a few advertisers. Pros and findoms should pay to advertise here too if they want clientele from this site. (See the ads from paying businesses that have been placed at the right hand side and the bottom of this page as examples of legitimate business’ that advertise here). Pros use the term professional dominatrix as a way to say that they are offering a sexualized service but still have a fancy term to label themselves so people aren’t immediately inclined to say “oh they are a whore/gigolo”. I’m under the impression that a findom uses the term findom to label themselves so people won’t immediately be inclined to say “oh they are a (lazy ass) whore/gigolo”. I’m under the impression that these findoms believe that they are entitled to being taken care of. They say that “they like to be... spoiled” and even expect it. They don’t want to take a hands on approach. But these findoms want all of the benefits none the less. Then there are some people on here that go so far as to say that unless one buys them something or gives them money they won’t talk to them. Some like to run that line of shit saying that making someone buy them something or give them money is an acid test to see if a potential slave/submissive is worth their time. BITCH... you’re fuckin’ lucky someone wants to talk to your undeserving ass, pull your head out of there (see my profile picture). You pro's and findoms don't deserve anyone's submission. Being somebody’s Owner is a privilege not a right or a business arrangement. Submission is the greatest gift a slave can give to a dominant, everything else is simply cheap and because pros and findoms will accept money, gift cards/money cards, trips to the salon/day spa, shopping trips, things off of an Amazon list, their bills paid, etcetera, they cheapen the gift of submission that a lifestyle submissive gives to their Owner.
NOW... are you pros and findoms angry? If so... it's probably your own guilt that is making you angry. Yes the truth isn't always nice; in fact sometimes the truth hurts... horribly but it will set you free. |
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I bumped into this today, guess where, yup you guessed it ...on here
"IF YOU CANNOT WRITE IN COHERENT ENGLISH SENTENCES WITH PROPER PUNCTUATION, IT MEANS YOU DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO SERVE ME PROPERLY AND I WILL NOT BE INTERESTED".
The way I translate that is "I think I'm fucking special and my ego is artificially over inflated".
You know, you people who act this way are probably miserable. I don't think I would want to be your submissive. I think that your misery would show up in places where it didn't need to show up ...such as during times of disciplinary measures being administered. |
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This is exactly what I keep going on about. Don't give your hard earned money away. If they need your money then they evidently aren't responsible enough to manage their own finances. What would make you think they are responsible enough to be your Master or Mistress if they can't manage their own finances?
GeekyBitch (http://www.collarspace.com/personals/v/2211288/default.htm) says she is overwhelmed with messages and if one wishes to be considered for a sub or slave position send an amazon gift code with ones first message. All others please do not message me, thanks. |
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Well the site has a new name, to bad that its still the same old bad joke. |
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This morning I looked to see what was going on here in the barren waste land of collarspace.com. The very first profile that popped up was owned by someone calling themselves "DeviantDommeM". Their profile is (a) prime example of why I call collarme a barren waste land. DeviantDommeM is running the "pay me to talk to me" line of shit. That line of shit resembles a person going out to a lake to fish. Before the person throws there line in the water, they say... "I will only try to hook you if you pay to be hooked". Then they sit there expecting a big fish to come along and give them something. |
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Hmmm, Is the phrase "In session" just another nice way of saying I'm a predatory professional? |
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