I enjoy finding those people that enjoy using control with the cerebral and erotic. While i have had many years where I ventured into the pain and dungeon aspects, I now find much of that a distraction. It is the person i can connect best with between the ears.

Are you a Top or a Switch (Man, Women or in Between), wanting to give a try and get some practice? Willing to find what gets to me. What pushes my buttons. Play with some edges. Really wanting to delve into shame and humilliation. I am rather well adjusted so calling me a worm isn't shameful. making me a victim of my own sensuality is. What edges will i go over in that erotic bliss? Will I come back red faced and ask to be taken yet a step furthur. Your grin and smile come from a pleasure in taking real contro and effecting behavoir.

Are you a switch or bottom Female. Looking to have a fantasy explored. I don't make a good master, and i find that calling me Sir is where you feel most comfortable than being my requirement. On the other hand you will find that i am a very good disciplinarian. sure corparal punishment is involved. but again, it is more that person is looking for someone that will bring some order and control to their minspace that interests me. I guess i had alot of good tops that taught me some great and most shameful lesons for those that want to push back