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It is my belief that many do not understand what "switch" really means. It is not a mere physical reversal of roles at one's whim. I RARELY switch. When I do it is the result of a lengthy mental evolution which culminates in the physical manifestation of such. Generally, when I HAVE to be in control over others for a course of time (outside world), I desire the ability to CHOOSE whom I control in my private life. A very "free-will" issue. Sounds almost sub-like I know, and quite a conundrum. However, more often than not, the outside world is "in control" and I want to relinquish that power over me to someone I trust: ergo, the reason I find subjugation soulfully fulfilling. My personal domme interaction actually MEANS something and lasts far longer in my mental "hard-drive" than does the physical implementation! I am pleasing the one who honors my relinquished power. She understands the great satisfaction I get from simply serving. Once again, a clear delineation between physical and mental action. Think about what "switch" really means to you before building the foundation that either defines or motivates.... |
