A real Master does NOT have slaves, he is the one a woman wants to submit too and he will handle that submission as the most precious gift.
Submission can NEVER be forced, its a gift that comes from the soul of the one who is submitting whereby some girls love to feel and serve like a slave and some are happy pleasing their Master but a feeling of love and care has to be mutual or the relation is doomed.
A real Master makes you smile when you're sad, he lift you when you are down and if you need to cry he gives his shoulder and wipe your tears and when you are excited he will bring you past heaven and back and then comfort you.
Some need pain for that, some are happy in devotion, its different for every individual.
Cracking a whip and name you slut and whore is NOT the way a real Master works, he is intelligent and knows all about you, your craving, your lust as well as the things that you DONT like.
His mental power will make you weak in your knees (smile) and THAT is what you submit to.
Master is just a name/titel some call me Sir, some Master and some Daddy, your heart will know how to address me should you submit to me, but first we go together on a road.
The destination is not the important issue, it is the journey that counts!
Understanding what Submissive means
To understand the power of submission, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed.
True submission is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes much deeper than the mere physical/sexual act of offering oneself to a Master for pleasure. A person can behave in a submissive manner but this is not the same as being "a submissive".
To offer oneself completely and utterly to another, to surrender all choice and "power" requires an exceptional inner strength. High self esteem and a knowledge that in order to relinquish power to another as well as understanding that one must possess that inner power is essential.
Embracing and expressing your submissive nature will give you the most powerful opportunities to find the deepest levels of trust, power and the intimacy that can only arise from the bond of a Master and sub. It is the ultimate expression of balance, the archetypal opposition of yin (the receptive principal) and yang (the active principle). Both sides being perfectly equal, yet forming a perfect whole.
As a submissive, your goals are to come before your Master as an empty chalice to be filled.....or a blank canvas to be painted....formless clay waiting to be molded. Thru this exchange, you know that you will become more than you were before....the Master takes the raw material, or the blank canvas or the raw gemstone and brings out the inner lustre. In this experience, what many misinterpret is that they assume the Master imposes his will upon the sub and she becomes whatever he wants her to be. But you will find that,
the real Master brings out the qualities of submission in a more pronounced way. Rather than being told to "act" in a submissive way, it is the submissive's role to remove veil after veil until who she becomes is the perfect reflection of devoted service and in serving her Master, she finds an inner joy and balance that comes from knowing that with each veil removed, each boundary crossed, she becomes MORE of who she already is.
When you feel, hear and see your Master's pride in you, you know that you are elevated and adored above all women. you have truly given the Gift of your soul to Him and in that exchange He becomes as bound to you as you are to Him. That is the beauty of submission.
There is a dynamic that exists where the more your Master asks of you, the more you are able to give, and then the deeper our bond becomes. It grows exponentially.
The perfect yin/yang of the Master being the active principle in the TAKING and the submissive being the receptive in the GIVING.
Your submission can be expressed in many ways: on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. Without all of these levels, again, it becomes merely a physical act. There is a sacredness to submission. Like prayer or other acts of devotion, it will give your life an intention and focus that always strives for the highest, purest expression.
Putting the relationship first...always searching within for ways to please and offer more of yourself than you think you can. It is this going beyond and pushing limits that becomes the most important reward of submission for you...the place of empowerment and self knowledge and the resulting inner strength/transformation. It is also dancing with the inner Shadowself...the parts of you that are about fear and being taken on the journey by someone (the Master) who will be there to catch you so you never really fall. The most special part of submission for you will be level of intimacy and soul connection with another. Each veil that is removed, each boundary crossed, each lash accepted and begged for, each time of being taken to the outermost regions of letting go of control.....all of this is the glue that binds the Master and sub completely to one another. To become completely naked and vulnerable on every level, giving more than you think you can. Seeing the pride and love in your Master's eyes is for you the greatest Gift imaginable.
