i have had a reasonably long involvement and experience in this lifestyle, having been collared for a period of 5 years to a life style Mistress, and served proffessional Mistresses as a Dungeon /House Slave and also in plays.
i consider the D/s and power exchange requires three key elements to be successful, obediance, trust and respect, obediance is created by the behaviour of the submissive, respect is created by the behaviour of the Dominant and trust is formed by the behaviour of both. |