I am a submissive living in Philly. I first encountered the world of BDSM in the fall of 2015 when I was dating an older woman who, unbeknownst to me, was dominant. She exposed me to all sorts of kinks and showed me Fetlife. I did my homework, looking into the many different aspects that BDSM has to offer and noting the kinks and fetishes that really caught my attention and turned me on. I realized that many of the things about my sexuality and the things that turned me on were actually somewhat common and not just peculiarities of my idiosyncratic ways. I became friends with others in the community, and had a lot of great experiences and teachers that I am very thankful for.

I am a traditionally masculine guy, and I still often do enjoy taking control in the bedroom and dominating the girl I’m with. However, I want to explore my submissive side more and accept it as a part of myself, since I’ve tried repressing it for so long.

I am 6’3”, 220lbs, physically fit.